DISCIPLINE WITHOUT TEARS Rudolf Dreikurs, M.D., and Pearl Cassel.

Slides:



Advertisements
Similar presentations
Democratic Theory of Education.  b in Vienna, Austria; d  Earned medical degree from the University of Vienna.  Worked with family and.
Advertisements

A Basic Approach to Understanding Misbehavior Successful Solutions Professional Development LLC Chapter 2 Reasons for Misbehavior.
Guiding the Behavior of Young Children. Establishing mutual respect Positive interaction Focusing on the child Encouragement of Self-control Effective.
Principles Therapeutic Individual Psychology - Adler Personality Personality can only be understood holistically- within a context of the person and their.
 Effective teaching requires that you also be an effective manager.  Are you able to get students’ cooperation, maintain students’ involvement in instructional.
CHAPTER 1 Guidance Tradition. Internet Links Publishers web site ?cid=APL1.
+ Classroom Management from Linda Albert. + Good Discipline Linda Albert believes that good discipline depends on student’s attaining a sense of belonging,
Rudolph Dreikurs. The Democratic Discipline Model
TLPI—4/16/07 Classroom Management Classroom Management Plan (revisited) Thematic Units.
Why do children misbehave?
Community Partnership with Steven Foster and Head Start By: Trena Kelley Steven Foster and Head Start By: Trena Kelley.
Cooperative Discipline
CH. 8-Working with Families on Guidance Issues
Effective Discipline Strategies
Jim Fay’s Love and Logic By Matilde Girod.
Understanding and Motivating Students
Promoting Self-Discipline in Children
Positive Guidance Techniques
© 2011 Brooks/Cole, A Division of Cengage Learning Chapter 11 Individual Psychology One of the most beautiful gifts in the world is the gift of encouragement.
Classroom Management and Communication
Whitney Whitehair Allison Moore October 14, 2009 EDUC 360.
“You have to reach the heart before you can reach the head.” Positive Discipline in the Classroom, Nelson, Ed.D., Lott, M.A., and Glenn, Ph.D Positive.
BULLY- PROOFING 0UR SCHOOL Southern Hills Elementary School.
POSITIVE DISCIPLINE WHAT IS DISCIPLINE?.
Assertive discipline. Assumptions  Students must be forced to comply with rules  Students cannot be expected to determine appropriate classroom rules.
CLASSROOM DISCIPLINE DISCIPLINE “OK, here are your options: jump and discover the joy of flight, or don’t jump and I’ll kick your butt out of the tree.
Rudolph Dreikurs Rudolph Dreikurs Concepts of Classroom Management I. Background II. Democratic Teaching III. Mistaken Goals IV.
Positive Discipline vs. Punishment As a parent guiding behavior you are your child's teacher and so your job is to share information, modeling and feedback.
What is Bullying? Bullying is when purposeful acts of meanness are repeated over time in an situation where there is an imbalance of power. Bullying is.
Classroom Management Leading Theories 1.
Effective Discipline Objective: To examine different types of guidance techniques used with children. (TEKS (7)A,B,C,F,G,H)
Root Causes of Misbehavior. Most student misbehaviors occur for a reason. One of our most important jobs is to figure out the reason. There is a method.
Graduate Diploma in Learning & Teaching 11th February, 2007.
20th and 21st Century Classroom Management Pioneers
Great Pioneers in Modern Discipline
Welcome To Cooperative Discipline
Understanding & Managing Behavior “Misbehavior results from mistaken goals.” Rudolph Dreikurs © Kappa Delta Pi 2014.
Rudolph Dreikurs. The Democratic Discipline Model
A Group-Oriented Approach
Brian V. Smith ECED 3271  Rudolf Dreikurs was born in Chicago on February 8 th 1897; Dr. Dreikurs was a psychiatrist and a teacher during the educational.
Parenting for Success Class #1
RUDOLF DREIKURS by: Danielle Tarlini
›Guiding Children’s Behavior ›Angela Hirsch. The first thing to look at when experiencing mistaken behavior in a classroom is the environment. Room arrangement,
What does an effective parent do?. Good parent or effective parent? Effective people are those who invest their energy in a way that achieves specific.
Goals of Parenting (Kagan, 1976)
POSITIVE DISCIPLINE WHAT IS DISCIPLINE?. VALUE LINE ACTIVITY: *__________________________________* Spanking is effectiveI don’t believe in spanking Mark.
Parenting Theories John B. Watson
POSITIVE DISCIPLINE. WHAT IS DISCIPLINE? WHAT ABOUT SPANKING?  It is a physical assault on a child.  It teaches children to deal with life in a physical.
Meeting Children’s Social and Emotional Needs Objectives for Topic 10-4 After studying this topic, you will be able to explain how to help children develop.
Managing Student Behavior and Promoting Social Acceptance Introduction to Classroom Management Melinda Butler Lewis Clark State College.
Working With Children Parenting Roles How Far Back Can You Remember??????
Learning about Behavior. Questions about behavior: Why do children behave they way they do? What influences behavior? How do children learn behavior?
RUDOLPH DREIKURS SARA REDINI KYLE QUACKENBUSH JASON DIBBERN SHANELL YATES.
The Dreikurs Model: Confronting Mistaken Goals
Dealing with the Difficult Student: Puzzling Behaviors Notes at -
Positive Guidance Dawnita S. Nilles Extension Agent/Family Resource Coordinator NDSU Extension Service/Region IV, CSCC Serving Families in the Counties.
Guidance vs. Punishment and Parenting Styles Ch. 14 – Developing Guidance Skills.
Welcome To Cooperative Discipline
Puzzling Classroom Behavior Beth Ackerman, Ed.D.
Discipline Plan.
Rudolf Dreikurs By: Monica VanGilder.
JOY in Working with Challenging Students
Cooperative Discipline: A Proactive Approach
Puzzling Classroom Behaviors edu
Discipline Through Democratic Teaching Confronting Mistaken Goals
Reaching the Hard to Reach Beth Ackerman
Positive Guidance and Discipline.
THE MISDIRECTED GOALS OF BEHAVIOUR
Underlying causes of Challenging Behaviour and Poor Attendance
Meeting Children’s Social and Emotional Needs
Presentation transcript:

DISCIPLINE WITHOUT TEARS Rudolf Dreikurs, M.D., and Pearl Cassel

“All living things know what to do with their young-except the parents of today. We parents and teachers must first build a new tradition, if we want to live in a world of peaceful co- existence.” (Dreikurs, 7)

Autocratic  Boss  domination  Power  Faultfinding  Punishing Democratic  Leader  Guidance  Influence  Encouragement  Helping

CHILDREN’S GOALS OF MISBEHAVIOR The 4 goals  Attention Getting  Power  Revenge  Display of inadequacy

CHART 1 IDENTIFYING THE GOALS OF CHILDREN’S MISBEHAVIOR Goals Success/charmNuisance/laziness Teacher feels annoyed Goal 1 Attention Getting Rebel/Stubborn Teacher feels defeated Goal 2 Power Vicious/violent passivity Teacher feels deeply hurt Goal 3 Revenge Hopeless Teacher feels helpless Goal 4 Display of Inadequacy

THE STEPS o Observe the child’s behavior in detail. o Be psychologically sensitive to your own reaction. o Confront the child with the four goals. o Note the recognition reflex. o Apply appropriate corrective procedures. o How are you (the teacher) feeling?

THE RIGHT QUESTIONS ???

 Competition  Encouragement  Praise v.s encouragement  Logical Consequences not punishment  Pair Share Logical Consequences and a praise v.s. encouragement

CONFLICT SOLVING  Don’t fight, don’t give in.  Identify the nature of the conflict.  Reach an agreement.  Let everybody in the conflict participate in the decision-making.

WHICH MISTAKEN GOAL? Pair share Weaknesses?

THANK YOU Questions ????