TRAUMA: Family Time Alan Flashman MD Jerusalem Jerusalem2012alanflashman.wordpress.com
STEPHEN KERN The Culture of Time and Space Washington – San Francisco >200 Different Times
MURRAY BOWEN: DIFFERENTIATION OF SELF IN SYSTEM “I” - POSITION “I” - POSITION
“I” - POSITION Authentic & Full Expression Authentic & Full Expression Beginning of the Encounter Beginning of the Encounter Rather than: Rather than: Erasing “I” – giving in Erasing “I” – giving in Erasing “You” – forcing Erasing “You” – forcing Taking a risk Taking a risk
DIFFERENTIATION OF SELF IN SYSTEM “I” - POSITION “I” - POSITION TRIANGLES TRIANGLES
HIGH DIFFERENTIATION: TRIADS = 3 Dyads
LOW DIFFERENTIATION: TRIANGLES
DIFFERENTIATION OF SELF IN SYSTEM “I” - POSITION “I” - POSITION TRIANGLES TRIANGLES CO-CREATION CO-CREATION
Yonatan Darmon Safed, Israel
DIFFERENTIATION HIGH LOW
REALM OF THE HAND REGULATION Doing – mother’s Doing – mother’s Result – baby’s Result – baby’s E.g. security E.g. security
REALM OF THE EYE Intersubjective Differences Differences Curiosity Curiosity Co-creation Co-creation Presence (Being) Presence (Being)
REGULATION INTER- SUBJECTIV E
REGULATION INTER- SUBJECTIV E DIFFERENTIATIO N
REGULATION
DIFFERENTIATION OF SELF IN SYSTEM “I” - POSITION “I” - POSITION TRIANGLES TRIANGLES CO-CREATION CO-CREATION
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6 PTSDTake care of Brother 40 Emotional Withdrawal Dependence on Mother Super- Grandma Sublimations (Blos) VOICE (Brown & Gilligan) 2004 TRAUMA
1813 PTSDTake care of Brother 47 Emotional Withdrawal Dependence on Mother Super- Grandma Sublimations (Blos) VOICE (Brown & Gilligan) OBJECTIVE PASSAGE SONS AND FATHERS (Blos) Leaving Home (Haley) 2011
2116 PTSDPregnant 50 Emotional Withdrawal Dependence of Mother CVA Sublimations (Blos) VOICE (Brown & Gilligan) PRAGMATIC PASSAGE SONS AND FATHERS (Blos) Leaving Home (Haley) 2014 Leaving Home (Haley) New Mother (Stern)
2723 PTSD 56 Emotional Withdrawal Dependence of Mother CVA SUBJECTIVE PASSAGE Sublimations (Blos) VOICE (Brown & Gilligan) SONS AND FATHERS (Blos) Leaving Home (Haley) Leaving Home (Haley) New Mother (Stern) NEW MEANINGS (Bowen, Flashman) NEW MEANINGS (Bowen, Flashman)
REGULATION INTER- SUBJECTIV E
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