Cyber Bullying Level 7

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The Plan In this lesson, you will be learning about cyber bullying. You will be developing PSA’s (Public Service Announcements) or jingles on the concepts of being considerate online, cyber bullying, etc.

All Right – Let’s Get Started Make sure you have a copy of the activity page called the Cyber Bullying Fact Sheet We will be using it to learn more about Cyber Bullying.

Let’s Review information about bullying: Time to Brainstorm Let’s Review information about bullying: What are some things that a bully might do? Why do people act as bullies? Why do people sometimes forget to be kind? What should one do when confronted with a bully? Have any of you had incidents where you were bullied?

Let’s Take a Closer Look at the Cyber Bullying Fact Sheet

"All cruelty springs from weakness.” (Seneca, 4BC-AD65) Cyber Bullying Factsheet "All cruelty springs from weakness.” (Seneca, 4BC-AD65) Bullying has become an online event as well as a physical one. Intimidation online can be just as bad, and in some cases worse, than when bullying occurs in the physical community.

Bullying   Bullies are those people who gain gratification (a sense of happiness) when they have provoked or tormented others. They feel better by making others feel worse. Cyber bullies are those bullies who use the Internet to be mean to others.

Bullying   E-mail provides one method of communication for these bullies. Flame mail – mail designed to make another person mad – is used along with hate mail – mail that shows racism, sexism, or other prejudices. Another way bullies use the Internet is through bulletin boards and chat sites to make their comments public. Finally, some cyber bullies build websites devoted to making a person or persons feel bad.

Think About It! Do you think it’s a sign of strength or weakness to use the Internet for bullying? Why?

What to do if you are Cyber bullied Tell someone. Don’t keep this to yourself. Tell a trusted adult about the bullying. Don’t open or read messages by Cyber bullies. Tell the police if threatened. Tell your Internet Service Provider. Tell your school if it is school related. Schools have a bullying plan in place. Don’t erase the messages – they may be needed to take action. Instead, put them in a folder unread. Protect yourself – never agree to meet with the person or with anyone you meet online. If bullied through chat or instant messaging, the “bully” can often be blocked. Tell someone!

How to keep from being bullied online Don’t give out private information such as passwords, pins, name, address, phone number, school name, or family and friends names. This information can be used by bullies and other harmful people on the Internet. Use Netiquette. Be polite online and others will tend to do the same. If someone does get angry or bullies you, ignore them – online Cyber bullies want a reaction just like other bullies. Don’t send a message when you are angry – it is hard to undo things that are said in anger. Delete messages from people you don’t know or from people who seem angry or mean. When something doesn’t seem right, it probably isn’t. Get out of the site, chat, etc. Prevention

The best defense to avoid being a bully online: Use Netiquette. Be polite online and others will tend to do the same. If someone does get angry or bullies, ignore them – online bullies want a reaction.   Think about ways to apply E-mail netiquette to the following: Subject lines Attachments Forwarded messages Spam Chain letters Hoaxes Your original messages

Chatroom Netiquette Many of the same conventions that apply to newsgroups and e-mail are also relevant in chatrooms. You're still just typing your thoughts and sending them to people, but in a chatroom they're just a little quicker to respond.

While chatting: Avoid Using ALL CAPS - It’s considered yelling. Decide What Tone the Conversation Has Before Posting - Don't use offensive language or nicknames. Always avoid making personal attacks and calling names. Don't "Flood" the Chatroom - Flooding is repeating messages over and over, or filling the screen with gibberish, in order to impede communication in the chatroom. Be Nice to Newbies - Remember your first chats? If someone stumbles into your chat, who is obviously new to this medium, show some patience and help him or her get the hang of it.

Time for Group Work Your teacher will divide you into groups for the next activity. In your small groups, read the worksheet and follow directions to complete it. 1st section: Groups will read through the phrases and select the response that shows consideration. 2nd section: Groups read the “mean” phrase, and as a group, discuss and reword so it is considerate. 3rd section: Groups answer the questions about how to phrase items in a more considerate manner and its importance when online.

Ok – if you have time – Let’s do an optional activity Your teacher has a scenario page called What is Cyber bullying? In groups you can draft responses full of advice. Otherwise – let’s continue on with the next activity.

In Your Small Groups… Design a Public Service Announcement or jingle advising others on how to communicate considerately, and why it is necessary, while online. When finished, present your PSA or jingle to the class. Make a plan to share it with others!

And Last but not Least Discuss how you could make a difference in other peoples lives and help both bullies and victims. Write down on a sheet of paper three things you could do to be considerate to others. Acting in a kind matter is one way to fight bully tactics. Commit to completing these three kind acts

Point to Ponder If the problem of online bullying grows, what might be some consequences to freedom on the Internet?

So How Do you Know When You’re Done??? Have you: 1. Covered all the reference sheets? 2. Discussed with your class what you have learned? 3. Completed the It’s Easy to Be Considerate worksheet? 4. Completed and shared your PSA or jingle?

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