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ANGER IN THE HOME

I. RIGHT USE OF ANGER: TO CAUSE FEAR OF WRONG DOING u With regards to God, Prov. 1:7 u With regards to government, Rom. 13:1-4 u With regards to parents, Heb. 12:9

ANGER IN THE HOME II. BIBLE CASES OF SINFUL ANGER IN THE HOME A. Angry men, Col. 3:19; 1 Sam. 20:30-34

Angry Men: Bitter with Wives (Col. 3:19) u Bitter, “to embitter, exasperate, i.e. render angry, indignant; pass. to be embittered, irritated” (Thayer, p. 509) u Bitterness, “an ill-tempered and offensive disposition” (answers.com) u Bitter, adj., “hostile, nasty” (answers.com)

Angry Men: Angry with Children (1 Sam. 20:30-34)  Things Saul did in Anger:  Insults Jonathan (30)  Tries to make Jonathan feel ashamed when he is acting righteously (30)  Tries to influence Jonathan by appealing to greed (31)  Speaks in direct disobedience to the Law of God (32)  Refused to listen to the voice of reason (32-33)  Resorts to physical violence (33)

ANGER IN THE HOME II. BIBLE CASES OF SINFUL ANGER IN THE HOME B. Angry women, Prov. 21:9 II. BIBLE CASES OF SINFUL ANGER IN THE HOME B. Angry women, Prov. 21:9

ANGER IN THE HOME II. BIBLE CASES OF SINFUL ANGER IN THE HOME C. Anger in children, Gen. 4:1-8; Eph. 6:4 II. BIBLE CASES OF SINFUL ANGER IN THE HOME C. Anger in children, Gen. 4:1-8; Eph. 6:4

Things Which Can Cause Anger in a Child  Wanting to get their own way  The desire for attention  Temperament  Cruel or unjust punishment, 1 Sam. 20:34  Showing partiality, Gen. 25:28; 27:1ff  Never being satisfied with accomplishments  Neglect  Constant faultfinding  Bad examples, Prov. 22:24-25

ANGER IN THE HOME III. SOME SINS THAT CAN RESULT FROM ANGER

Some Sins Connected with Anger in the Bible: © Murder (Gen. 4:6-8) © Trying to make one feel ashamed for acting righteously (1 Sam. 20:30) © Trying to influence one by appealing to greed (31) © Speaking in direct disobedience to the Law of God (32) © Resorting to violence (33) © Cutting off all contact with spouse (Est. 1:12, 19) © Refusal to do God’s will (2 Kgs. 5:12)

Further Sins We See Coming from Anger : Strife Impatience Lies Unkindness Cursing, profanity Trying to ruin someone’s reputation Refusal to forgive Hardheartedness Distancing self from others Divisiveness Withholding love from a loved one False accusations Neglect of the home Broken homes

ANGER IN THE HOME IV. AVOIDING SINFUL ANGER, Jas. 1:19-20; 2 Pet. 1:6; Eph. 4:26

Bible Helps in Controlling Anger:  “The discretion of a man maketh him slow to anger; And it is his glory to pass over a transgression.” (Prov. 19:11)  “A wrathful man aboundeth in transgression.” (Prov. 29:22)  “A wrathful man stirreth up contention.” (Prov. 15:18)  “A fool uttereth all his anger.” (Prov. 29:11)  “He that is soon angry will deal foolishly.” (Prov. 14:17)  Frequent anger leads one to be socially exiled from the good and wise. (Prov. 22:24-25)

THE WOUNDS SINFUL ANGER CAUSES There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.

The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. It does not matter how many times you say you’re sorry or work to make things better, the wound is still there.” -- adapted

ANGER IN THE HOME I. RIGHT USE OF ANGER: TO CAUSE FEAR OF WRONG DOING II. BIBLE CASES OF SINFUL ANGER IN THE HOME III. SOME SINS THAT CAN RESULT FROM ANGER IV. AVOIDING SINFUL ANGER, Jas. 1:19-20; 2 Pet. 1:6; Eph. 4:26