LADIES First
it took place in Italy at 18th century
and it was about a young man from rich class fell in love a girl but she was from lower class. However, they planned to have happy marriage..
But his family refused this proposal. so, they said : " only death can separate us “ " only death can separate us “
and when the threats became more and more, they decided to commit suicide. so, they went to a high rock on the sea. first, first, the girl wanted to commit suicide and jump but the young man said : " I can not see you die, I will jump first and then you will follow me " so, he jumped and died. the girl wanted to commit suicide and jump but the young man said : " I can not see you die, I will jump first and then you will follow me " so, he jumped and died. It was frightful scene. After the girl saw her lover died, she made up her mind and did not follow him. It was frightful scene. After the girl saw her lover died, she made up her mind and did not follow him.
After that, she came back to the town and got married to a man from her class, she betrayed her lover who killed himself because of their love
When people knew about this story, they decided that ladies should start to do every thing and in every situation.. that shows the famous saying LADIES FIRST
by the way It is an European saying, i mean it is not in Islamic culture because our customs lead us to give the gentlemen the priority in every thing.