Twenty years ago: “ If you see something in someone that you dislike, be sure that you posses that feature, and get closer to that person because you have for sure something to work there. ”
Three years ago: “If you see a virtue in someone, feel confident that you own that virtue, you cannot be aware of a virtue that is not strong in you.”
A Look in the Mirror
We can actually see what we want to see.
It is a reflection!
When you change, the relationship changes. The dynamic of a negative relationship cannot be sustained without your participation. -Linda Kavelin Popov, A Pace of Grace
Alberto
Work with a partner Look at each other into the face, making eye contact, in complete silence, for 30 seconds. Boundary: Perceptiveness: be aware of your feelings, observe carefully your own gestures and your partner´s as well, your body language.
What happened?
What can I do, to see a different reflection of the person I have in front of me?
“Sesa Wo Suban” Transform my character to transform the world.
Perceptiveness Clarity of insight. Being observant of what is beneath the surface and looking for a deeper meaning. Slow down into awareness. We strive to see what is truly going on.
We are born with all the virtues in potential!