3 Ways to Create Lasting Change 1)Raise Your Standards 2)Change Your Limiting Beliefs 3)Change Your Strategy
Step One: Raise Your Standards If you don’t set a baseline standard for what you’ll accept in life, you’ll find it easy to slip into behaviors and attitudes or a quality of life that’s far below what you deserve. Question: What will you no longer accept or tolerate? Question: What kind of person do you aspire to become?
Step Two: Change Your Limiting Beliefs Our beliefs shape every action, every thought, and every feeling we experience. Question: Name some examples of beliefs that are limiting.
Some limiting beliefs “I can’t do it.” “I’m not smart/talented enough.” “If I fail I’m a failure.” “I can’t afford to make mistakes.” “I don’t deserve it.”
The Power of Decision It is in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped. Everyone can make a decision in an instant that can positively affect their lives. Question: So why don’t people make decisions that will turn their dreams into reality?
Fear! Most people are paralyzed by the fear that they don’t know exactly how to turn their dreams into reality, so they never make the decisions to accomplish their goals.
3 Decisions that Control your Destiny 3 decisions you make every moment of your life determine how you feel, what you do, and who you will become. If you don’t control these decisions, you simply aren’t in control of your life- when you control them, you begin to sculpt your experience.
3 Decisions that Control your Destiny 1) Your decisions about what you focus on. 2) Your decisions about what things mean to you. 3) Your decisions about what to do to create the results you desire. Question: What does this mean to you?