Helping Parents and Children to prevent bullying. By Jamie Thompson
A term over the years has grown so large that it now has many movements against it. Unwanted aggressive behavior among school aged children that involves a real perceived power imbalance
Kids who are bullied Experience: - Depression - Increase feelings in sadness and loneliness - Loss of interest in activities - More likely to avoid school Kids who bully others Experience: - Destroy property - Get into fights - Drop out of school - Have criminal records - Have sexual activity early
Kids who witness bullying are likely to: - Skip school - Have mental health problems
Bullying can happen during or after school hours. Most reported school bullying happens in the school building A good percentage of bullying happens: - On the playground - The bus - Traveling to or from school - In the neighborhood - The internet
Physical Emotional Verbal Cyber
Involves hurting someone’s reputation or relationships
Social Isolation Spreading Rumors Hiding Belongings Extortion Intimidation Peer Pressure Graffiti or drawings
Involves hurting a person’s body or possessions
Hitting Punching Biting Chocking Slapping Scratching Destruction of property
Saying or writing mean things
Name Calling Insults Teasing Aggressive use of Language Derogatory remarks
BBullying that takes place using electronic technology.
Cell phones Computers Tablets/Ipads Communication Tools Include - Social media cites - Text messages - Chat - Websites
Kids that get cyber bullied often get bullied in person. Kids that are cyber bullied have a harder time getting away.
Cyber bullying can happen at any time of the day or night. Cyber bullying messages and images can be posted at any time or anywhere and can be distributed fast to a very wide audience.
Kids that are targeted from cyber bullying are most likely to: - Get poor grades - Have lower self-esteem - Skip school - Make use of alcohol and drugs
Teachers and parents/ guardians have a role in preventing bullying. - Talk about bullying and how to stand against it - Listen to kids, and ask “How was your day?” - Show kids how to teach others the way they would like to be treated. - Take note in the children's interest to boost confidence.