Human Sexuality in a few of its many guises 1 Corinthians 7:1-32

The Plan of God And some Pharisees came to Him, testing Him, and saying, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any cause at all?” And He answered and said, “Have you not read, that He who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH’? Consequently they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.” Matthew 19:3–6

Modern Human Sexuality Census Bureau's Statistical Abstract of the U.S

Modern Human Sexuality Rutgers University, The State of our Unions 2003: The Social Health of Marriage in America “An estimated 40 percent of all children are expected to spend some time in a cohabiting household during their growing up years.”

Modern Human Sexuality Barna, George, A New Generation of Adults Bends Moral and Sexual Rules to Their Liking October, 2006

Modern Human Sexuality May 19, 2005 Congressional testimony transcript, Summit on pornography and violence against women and children. Report of the Attorney General's Task Force on Family Violence, U.S. Department of Justice, Washington, D.C., 112. US porn revenue exceeds the combined revenues of ABC, CBS, and NBC $ Billions

Modern Human Sexuality Barna, George, A New Generation of Adults Bends Moral and Sexual Rules to Their Liking October, 2006 Dr. Victor Cline identified the progressive nature of pornography addiction..Need for pornography escalates both in frequency and in deviancy. 87 percent of child molesters were regular consumers of hardcore pornography… 19 million new STD infections occur annually. One in five adults in the United States has an STD

God We love, because He first loved us. 1 John 4:19

Biblical Human Sexuality n Celibacy May Be Necessary… (v1). 1 Cor. 7:1 Now regarding the questions you asked in your letter. Yes, it is good to live a celibate life.

Biblical Human Sexuality n Celibacy May Be Necessary… (v1). n Look to Marriage for Sexual Fulfillment (v.2) But because there is so much sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman should have her own husband. 1 Corinthians 7:2

Biblical Human Sexuality n Celibacy May Be Necessary… (v1). n Look to Marriage for Sexual Fulfillment (v.2) But because there is so much sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman should have her own husband. 1 Corinthians 7:2

Biblical Human Sexuality n Celibacy May Be Necessary… (v1). n Look to Marriage for Sexual Fulfillment (v.2) n Sexuality Means Sacrificial Love (v.3-5) 1 Cor. 7:3 Let the husband fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband.

Biblical Human Sexuality n Celibacy May Be Necessary… (v1). n Look to Marriage for Sexual Fulfillment (v.2) n Sexuality Means Sacrificial Love (v.3-5) -REAL sacrifice, too! 1 Cor. 7:4 The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does

Biblical Human Sexuality n Celibacy May Be Necessary… (v1). n Look to Marriage for Sexual Fulfillment (v.2) n Sexuality Means Sacrificial Love (v.3-5) n Don’t “Spiritualize” Away Your Sexuality! 1 Cor. 7:5 Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again lest Satan tempt you because of your lack of self- control. I say this as a concession, not as a command…

Biblical Human Sexuality n Celibacy May Be Necessary… (v1). n Look to Marriage for Sexual Fulfillment (v.2) n Sexuality Means Sacrificial Love (v.3-5) n Don’t “Spiritualize” Away Your Sexuality! 1 Cor. 7:5 Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again lest Satan tempt you because of your lack of self- control. I say this as a concession, not as a command…

Biblical Human Sexuality n Celibacy May Be Necessary… (v1). n Look to Marriage for Sexual Fulfillment (v.2) n Sexuality Means Sacrificial Love (v.3-5) n Don’t “Spiritualize” Away Your Sexuality! n Celibacy is a Gift: an Opportunity! 1 Cor. 7:5 I wish that all men were as I am. But each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that … v26-28 I think then that this is good in view of the present distress, that it is good for a man to remain as he is. Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be released. Are you released from a wife? Do not seek a wife. But if you marry, you have not sinned; v32 “I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord's affairs--how he can please the Lord…”

Biblical Human Sexuality n Celibacy May Be Necessary… (v1). n Look to Marriage for Sexual Fulfillment (v.2) n Sexuality Means Sacrificial Love (v.3-5) n Don’t “Spiritualize” Away Your Sexuality! n Celibacy is a Gift: an Opportunity! n Marriage is a Gift: “Fire! Fire! Put it OUT!” 1 Cor. 7:5 Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am. But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion… Flee immorality. Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his own body. 1 Corinthians 6:18

1 Cor. 7:10-11 To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. A direct quote from Christ…

 Divorce is Very Un-cool 1 Cor. 7:10-11 To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. [11] But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife

 Divorce is Very Un-cool  But we aren’t naïve: divorce occurs.  Remain single, if possible.  Re-marry, if necessary…

 Divorce is Very Un-cool  But we aren’t naïve: divorce occurs.  The Non-Christian Home: Complicated  Stay in the marriage, if possible!

 Divorce is Very Un-cool  But we aren’t naïve: divorce occurs.  The Non-Christian Home: Complicated  Stay in the marriage, if possible!  God can work there!

 Divorce is Very Un-cool  But we aren’t naïve: divorce occurs.  The Non-Christian Home: Complicated  Stay in the marriage, if possible!  God can work there!  Divorce may be necessary for peace…

 Divorce is Very Un-cool  But we aren’t naïve: divorce occurs.  The Non-Christian Home: Complicated  Stay in the marriage, if possible!  God can work there!  Divorce may be necessary for peace…  Better still: don’t marry a non-Christian!

 Learn to Grow Where You’re Planted!  Your Circumstances are NOT your problems!

 Learn to Grow Where You’re Planted!  Your Circumstances are NOT your problems!  Still We Should Seek Opportunity for Change

Understanding Remarriage 1 Cor. 7:20-28 Each one should remain in the situation which he was in when God called him. [21] Were you a slave when you were called? Don't let it trouble you--although if you can gain your freedom, do so…

Understanding Remarriage [27] Are you married? Do not seek a divorce. Are you unmarried? Do not look for a wife. [28] But if you do marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned…

Understanding Remarriage n “Remain Where You’re At” 7:20 -An Ethical Principle, not a Rule. n If Its Not Working, Do the Other 7:22, Not necessarily a moral issue. 1 Cor. 7:21 Were you a slave when you were called? Don't let it trouble you--although if you can gain your freedom, do so. 1 Cor. 7:28 But if you do marry, you have not sinned…But those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this. 1 Cor. 7:26 Because of the present crisis, I think that it is good for you to remain as you are.

The Over-Riding Principle 1 Cor. 7:17 Nevertheless, each one should retain the place in life that the Lord assigned to him and to which God has called him. This is the rule I lay down in all the churches.