Love and affection Compiled and presented by Mr S. H MKHOMBO Compiled and presented by Mr S. H MKHOMBO.

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Love and affection Compiled and presented by Mr S. H MKHOMBO Compiled and presented by Mr S. H MKHOMBO

Love is an emotion photo by Frank DickseeMr S.H MKHOMBOFrank Dicksee and affection

Emotion. Affection. personal attachment Kindness compassion Different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from pleasure, interpersonal attraction, and culture Mr S.H MKHOMBO Kindness compassion Different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from pleasure, interpersonal attraction, and culture Mr S.H MKHOMBO

Kinds of love The diversity makes it difficult and challenging to define love especially out of emotional states Romantic loveSexual loveEmotional closenessFamilialFamilial lovePlatonic loveFriendshipReligious loveDiversification

Definitions Love may be understood as part of the survival instinct, a function to keep human beings together against menaces and to facilitate the continuation of the species. An experience felt by a person for another person. To care for another, to will the good of another to be delighted by the happiness of another e. g:a person can be said to love an object, principle, or goal if they value it greatly and are deeply committed to it. People can also "love" material objects, animals, or activities if they invest themselves in bonding or otherwise identifying with those things. If sexual passion is also involved, this condition is called paraphiliaparaphilia Mr S.H MKHOMBO

Interpersonal love love between human beings; exist between family members, friends, and couples. More than liking for another Mr S.H MKHOMBO

Love is a mammalian drive based on hunger and thirst. It has 3 experiences: lust; attraction and attachment Mr S.H MKHOMBO

Lust is the feeling of initial sexual desire, promotes mating (last for few weeks or months-testosterone v/s oestrogen) Romantic attraction determines what partners mates find attractive and pursue, involves feelings of safety and security and closeness Secretion of certain hormones stimulate the brain's pleasure centre and leading to side effects such as increased heart rate, loss of appetite and sleep, and an intense feeling of excitementpleasure centreheart rateloss of appetite Mr S.H MKHOMBO

lust and attraction stages are both considered temporary AttachmentAttachment is the bonding that promotes relationships lasting for many years and even decadesbonding based on commitments such as marriage and children, or on mutual friendship based on things like shared interestsmarriagechildren Mr S.H MKHOMBO

love has three different components: intimacy, commitment, and sexual attraction and passion Intimacy: two people share confidences and various details of their personal lives Commitment: is the expectation that the relationship is permanent Passionate: shown in infatuation as well as romantic love people tend to like people similar to themselves Mr S.H MKHOMBO