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Kim O’Toole Eckhardt – Systems Engineer Leadership BootCamp Kim O’Toole Eckhardt – Systems Engineer Harris Corporation September 21st, 2008 Last held Sept 23rd 2006

Overview The Four Parts of Leadership Know Yourself Meyers Briggs, Six Pillars of Self Esteem, 7 Habits Be a Good Team Player Being a Team Player, Team Building Communicate Effectively Presentation Skills, How to Win Friends & Influence People Continuous Improvement

Preliminary Evaluation Do a quick Preliminary Evaluation in the Leadership BootCamp Workbook. Present to the group one of your listed strengths and one of your weaknesses.

Know Yourself The Meyers Briggs Test 7 Habits of Highly Effective People Organization & Discipline Six Pillars of Self Esteem

Taking the Jung Personality Test Head to F2 Computer Lab http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp

Meyers Briggs (slide 1) The first preference has to do with how you're ENERGIZED. Column A Column B Tolerate noise and crowds. Avoid crowds and seek quiet. Talk more than listen. Listen more than talk. Communicate with enthusiasm. Keep enthusiasm to self. Be distracted easily. Concentrate well. Meet people readily and participate    in many activities. Proceed cautiously in meeting people    & participate in selected activities. Blurt things out w/o thinking. Think carefully before speaking. Hates to do nothing. On the go. Time alone to recharges batteries. Likes working or talking in    groups Would prefer to socialize in small   groups or just do job "by myself." Likes to be center of attention. Content being on the sidelines.

Meyers Briggs (slide 2) These preferences have to do with how you GATHER information... or what you pay attention to. Column A Column B Learn new things by imitation   and observation. Learns new things through general   concepts. Value solid, recognizable methods   achieved in step-by-step manner. Value different or unusual methods   achieved via inspiration. Focus on actual experience Focus on possibilities. Tend to be specific and literal;   give detailed descriptions. Tend to be general and figurative;   use metaphors and analogies. Behave practically. Behave imaginatively. Rely on past experiences. Rely on hunches. Likes predictable relationships. Values change in relationships. Appreciates standard ways to solve   problems. Use new and different ways to solve   problems and teach solutions. Methodical. Leap around in a roundabout way. Value realism and common sense. Value imagination and innovation.

Myers Briggs (slide 3) This category deals with how we make decisions and reach conclusions... Column A Column B Have truth as an objective. Have harmony as a goal. Decide more with my head. Decide more with my heart. Question others' findings,   'cause they might be wrong. Agree more with others' findings,   'cause people are worth listening to. Notice ineffective reasoning. Notice when people need support. Choose truthfulness over    tactfulness. Choose tactfulness over truthfulness. Deal with people firmly, as needed Deal with people compassionately. Expect world to run on logical   principles. Expect the world to recognize   individual differences. Notice pros & cons of each option. Note how an option has value and   it affects people. See others' flaws... critical. Like to please others; show appreciation. Feelings valid if they're logical. ANY feeling is valid. Tolerate occasional queries as   to my emotional state in relationships Appreciate frequent queries as   to my emotional state

Meyers Briggs (slide 4) This one has to do with the LIFESTYLE you adopt Column A Column B Prefer my life to be decisive,    imposing my will on it  Seek to adapt my life and experience    to what comes along. Prefer knowing what they're    getting themselves into Like adapting to new situations. Feel better after making decisions Prefer to keep things open. Enjoy finishing things. Enjoy starting things. Work for a settled life, with my   plans in order. Keep my life as flexible as   possible so that nothing's missed. Dislike surprises & want   advance warnings. Enjoy surprises and like adapting   and like adapting to last-minute changes. See time as a finite resource,   and take deadlines seriously. See time as a renewable resource,   and see deadlines as elastic. Like checking off "to do" list. Ignore "to do" list, even if made one. Feel better with things planned. Would rather do whatever comes along. Settled.  Organized. Tentative.  Flexible.  Spontaneous.

Meyers Briggs Summary Slide 1 Slide 2 Slide 3 Slide 4 Refers to how a person is energized Extraversion Introversion Shows a preference for drawing energy from the outside word of people, activities or things. Shows a preference for drawing energy from one's internal world of emotions or impressions. Slide 1 Column A: E Extrovert Column B: I Introvert Slide 2 Column A: S Sensing Column B: N Intuition Slide 3 Column A: T Thinking Column B: F Feeling Slide 4 Column A: J Judging Column B: P Perceiving Refers to what a person pays attention to Sensing INtuition Shows a preference for trusting information received through the five senses and noticing what is actual. Shows a preference for trusting information received through a "sixth sense" and noticing what might be. Refers to what a person most trusts when making a decision Thinking Feeling Shows a preference for trusting logical and objective information. Shows a preference for trusting personal and value-oriented information. Refers to the life style a person adopts Judgment Perception Shows a preference for living a planned and organized life. Shows a preference for living a spontaneous and flexible life. http://haleonline.com/psychtest/ http://www.doi.gov/octc/scales.html

Other Versions of the Test Jung: http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes1.htm Keirsey: http://www.keirsey.com/ Jobs: http://www.doi.gov/octc/typescar.html

The Six Pillars of Self Esteem Focus on Action The Practice of Living Consciously The Practice of Self Acceptance The Practice of Self Responsibility The Practice of Self Assertiveness The Practice of Living Purposefully The Practice of Personal Integrity

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People Be Proactive Begin with the End in Mind Put First things First Think Win/Win Seek First to Understand, then to be Understood Synergize Sharpen the Saw

Habits Knowledge (what to, why to) Desire (want to) Skills (how to)

1. Be Proactive The Social Mirror Between Stimulus & Response The Freedom to Choose Taking the Initiative Act or Be Acted Upon Circle of Concern/Circle of Influence Social Mirror: Genetic Determinism, Psychic Determinism, Environmental Determinism

Proactive/Reactive Language There’s nothing I can do That’s just the way I am He makes me so mad! They won’t allow that I have to do this I can’t I must If only Proactive Lets look at the alternatives I can choose a different approach I control my own feelings I can create an effective presentation I will choose an appropriate response I choose I prefer I will

Proactive Applications Take a situation where you are normally reactive (homework, papers, athletics) and come up with 3 ways to be proactive. Listen to your language for a full day. See how much of your language is reactive vs. proactive.

2. Begin with the End in Mind A Personal Mission Statement Think about your Eulogy Defining Roles & Goals Define Your Center

Personal Centers Significant Other Family Money Work Possession Pleasure/Thrill Enemy Church Self Friend **Principle Centered

End in Mind Applications Write your Own Eulogy Define all the Roles that you fill and the major Goals that you have Write a Personal Mission Statement

3. Put First Things First Time Management The Quadrant II Calendar Urgent Not Urgent Time Management The Quadrants The Quadrant II Calendar Long Term & Weekly Organization I Activities: Crises Pressing Problems Deadline driven Projects II Prevention PC Activities Relationship Building New Opportunities Planning, Recreation III Interruptions Phone Calls Mail, Reports, Meetings Popular Activities IV Trivia, Busy Work Mail, Phone Calls Time Wasters Pleasant Activities Not Important Important

The Quadrant II Calendar

First Things First Applications Identify a Quadrant II Activity that you have neglected, that would have a significant impact on your life, write it down and commit to it. Organize your next week, start with roles & goals, and develop specific actions around them. Find a time weekly that you can organize your upcoming week. Plan to do it every week.

Lunch Break ~12:00-1:00

4. Think Win/Win Win/Win Win/Lose, Lose/Win Lose/Lose Win Win/Win or No Deal Emotional Bank Accounts

Think Win/Win Applications Think of a situation where you are often in a win/lose or lose/win situation. Determine how you can make it a win/win. Next discussion you are in, come up with 4 ways you agree with the other person’s point of view. Identify 3 key relationships in your life. What format are they? Figure out 3 ways to make deposits in their emotional bank accounts.

5. Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood Principles of Empathic Communication Empathic Listening (in the other person’s shoes) Diagnose before you Prescribe Autobiographical Responses Understanding & Perception THEN Seek to be Understood

Understand/Understood Exercises Empathic Listening Practice Pick a relationship in which you think you have a negative emotional bank account. REALLY try to understand the other person’s perspective. Try and watch two people who are communicating, and cover your ears. Watch their “language”, see what you can learn from it.

Synergize & Sharpen the Saw Synergize: Practice Creative Cooperation Trust & Cooperation are HIGH Find the 3rd Alternative Sharpen the Saw: Balanced Self Renewal Production (P)/Production Capability (PC) Personal PC

The 8th Habit Find your Voice and Inspire others to find theirs Leadership is a choice to deal with people in a way that will communicate to them their worth and potential so clearly they will come to see it in themselves. Establish trust, find the 3rd alternative, develop a shared Vision

Be a Good Team Player The 17 Essential Qualities of a Team Player Teambuilding Knowing Your Team

The 17 Essential Qualities of a Team Player Adaptable Collaborative Committed Communicative Competent Dependable Disciplined Enlarging (adding value) Enthusiastic Intentional Mission Conscious Prepared Relational Self-Improving Selfless Solution Oriented Tenacious (Never Quit!)

Exercise Rate Yourself Build a Team Do you know how much of a team player you really are? Be HONEST in your answers! Build a Team

Getting to Know Your Team Listen!! Learn NAMES!! Try to figure out the “Why’s” Interact on a personal level Understand Aptitude & Attitude Problems

Attitude vs. Aptitude What are some Indicators/Differences between the following situations? Lack of Knowledge or Skill Aptitude Something is keeping them from Performing Enablement They Just don’t Want To. Attitude

Attitude vs. Aptitude Exercises Come up with the reason each individual did not accomplish the task they were supposed to based on APtitude, ATtitude, or ENablement.

Motivation Positive Incentives Personal Gain Money Food Good Feelings What Motivates People??? Positive Incentives Personal Gain Money Food Good Feelings Rewards Fear Negative Incentives Buy-In Recognition Praise Loathing

Motivation Exercise What Motivates People?

Afternoon Break ~3:00-3:30

Communicate Effectively Good Presentations How to Win Friends & Influence People Listening

Presentation Skills Know your audience Project your voice Use Eye Contact & Gestures Create a Persuasive Presentation Use Visuals Locate, Turn, & Talk Appropriate Q&A NEVER Apologize up front!!

Presentation Skills Exercise Take 5 Minutes to jot down an idea Evaluate each presenter.

How to Win Friends & Influence People Fundamental Techniques in Handling People Six Ways to Make People Like You How to Win People to Your Way of Thinking Be a Leader: How to Change People Without Giving Offense or Arousing Resentment

Fundamental Techniques in Handling People “If you want to gather honey, don’t kick over the beehive.” Don’t Criticize, Condemn or Complain (1) Try to Understand Give Honest & Sincere Appreciation (2) “He who can do this, has the whole world with him, he who cannot walks a lonely way.” Arouse in the Other Person an Eager Want (3)

Handling People Exercise Fill out the workbook sheets on: Don’t Criticize, Condemn or Complain Give Honest & Sincere Appreciation Arouse in the other Person an Eager Want

Six Ways to Make People Like You Become Genuinely Interested in Other People SMILE!!  Remember Names!! Be a Good Listener. Encourage Others to Talk About Themselves. Talk in Terms of the Other Person’s Interests Make the Other Person Feel Important, and Do it Sincerely.

The Name Game Everyone in the room say your middle name (or a parents first name if you don’t have one). Once we have gone around the room, take a minute to write down everyone’s first & middle name that you can remember. Friends Names.

How to Win People to Your Way of Thinking The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid an argument all together. Show Respect for the other person’s opinions. Never say “You’re Wrong.” If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically. Begin in a friendly way. Get the other person to say “Yes, Yes.” Let the other person do a great deal of the talking

How to Win People to Your Way of Thinking (cont) Let the other person feel the idea is his/hers. Try to honestly see things from the other person’s point of view Be sympathetic with the other person’s ideas and desires Appeal to the Nobler motives Dramatize your ideas Throw Down a Challenge!

How to Change People without Giving Offense or Arousing Resentment In order to change attitudes & behavior: Begin with praise & honest appreciation Call attention to people’s mistakes indirectly Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person Ask questions instead of giving direct orders Let the other person save face

How to Change People without Giving Offense or Arousing Resentment (cont) Praise the slightest improvement and praise EVERY improvement. Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to Use encouragement, make the fault seem easy to correct Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest

Listening Listen Openly Do NOT think autobiographically HEAR what the other person is saying Put yourself in their shoes Pay attention to names & likes/dislikes Only speak to note that you are hearing them. Try to reiterate what they say in different words to make sure you understand.

Continuous Improvement “Sharpen the Saw” Read as many books as you can Set aside Thinking Time Take time to Organize & Reflect PRACTICE!!

Q&A! Thanks for coming!!