Adjusting to Life in America

…The American Dream Guiding Principles Cultural Differences Communicating Effectively Societal Norms

American Culture Your expectations Keep an open mind Become familiar with American life

Values Freedom Equality Democracy Independence Family Diversity/Multiculturalism Individuality Integrity

Individualistic society– “Origins” not important. Occupation is prime determinant of social class. Competitive society “Doing” rather than “Being” Individualism and Social Class

Communication Greeting Personal Space Punctuality

Friendship Defined differently in different cultures Dealing with being stereotyped Most Americans are surprisingly outgoing and patient if you need help or have questions.

Tipping Tip = Gratuity Usually 18-25% Restaurant, delivery services, hairdresser, car wash etc.

Smoking Prohibited in: Public buildings, offices, most restaurants. Public transportation, trains and buses. NO SMOKING on campus!

Alcohol Legal drinking age is 21 Prohibited to operate any vehicle after consuming alcohol. Against UM policy to consume alcohol on or off campus if you are under 21. Purchasing or providing alcohol to any person under 21 is prohibited.

Culture Shock Describes process of adjustment to a completely new environment. Symptoms −Extreme homesickness −Sadness, loneliness, melancholy −Depression −Idealizing the old country

Phases of Culture Shock Honeymoon −Differences between the old and new culture are seen in a romantic light Negotiation −Differences between the old and new culture become apparent and may create anxiety Adjustment Mastery

How to cope with transition Get Involved Focus on the positive Turn to your friends, advisors −Academic −Residential −ISSS Seek help at the Counseling

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