Perspectives on Human Sexuality Chapter One Perspectives on Human Sexuality

Group Activity “Discussing Sex”

Using the Textbook Real-time Identify current media stories (newspapers, magazines, or TV), talk shows, or specials relating to human sexuality. Relate this to the appropriate chapter in the textbook or lecture. How accurate is the material?

Sexuality in Popular Culture Is Shaped by the Mass Media, So We Should Ask: What kinds of sexuality are portrayed by the media? What messages about sexuality are sent? Who are the messages intended for? What messages are ignored or avoided? What shapes the selection by the media?

Youth, Ages 8-18. Media Use/Day

Media Time

Mass Media Portrayals of Sexuality Occur in Multiple Forms Television Movies Music Magazines, tabloids, books Hand held technology World Wide Web Advertising

Media Portrayals of Sexuality: Sell products Produce sexual arousal Increase sexual behavior Provide sexual information Correct or incorrect ?

The Media : Keep Sexual Behavior Visible

Media: Exploit Sexuality

Media Effects Live by: Keeping sexual behavior visible Reinforcing sexual and relationship norms Including irresponsible models

Mass-media Depictions Are Meant to Entertain, Not Inform Rarely present reality scenarios Perpetuate the status quo

Mass-media Depictions Are Meant to Entertain, Not Inform “The various media present the social context of sexuality…” these messages “tell us what behaviors are appropriate, with whom they are appropriate, and why they are appropriate”.

How do you feel about this norm?

Television Increasing exposure Increasing sexual content Rare presentation of risk Rare presentation of responsible action Unrealistic presentation of sexuality Media reflect and reproduce stereotypical and unequal but changing gender roles Influences the way men and women view themselves

Television TV is a major source of sex information for teens Influences the way men and women view themselves Objectification of women in skimpy clothing – negative impact on the development of adolescent girls in self-esteem and self image?

Television FCC regulation of public airwaves Enforces regulations via fines Responds to public grievances Does not regulate cable Possibility of parental control with V-chip technology Educate parents Allow blocking of programs based on ratings

Television Genres Reality Shows Comedy series Soap Operas Crime/action-adventure programs Drama series Commercials Music videos Games Other

Television Genres Emphasize Different Types of Content Reality Shows – Foster unrealistic expectations, behaviors with no consequences. (clip courtesy of “Flavor of Love”) Comedy series – Taboos Soap Operas – Sexual transgressions Crime/action – Sexual variation Drama series – Situations

Television Genres Emphasize Different Types of Content (cont.) Commercials – Attitudes (video on Sex in Advertising Mind Control) Music Videos – Individual expression Dreamworlds 3: Desire, Sex & Power in Music Video (Exploitation and Aggression?) Games – Exploitation & aggression Video games promote sexist and violent attitudes toward women Other – Variations Note absence of risk or responsibility

Feature Length Films Sexy content Nudity Sexual double standard ? Vulnerability Rare presentations of risk or responsibility

GLBT People in the media Historically absent from mainstream films Historically presented stereotypically Gay man stereotype Lesbian woman stereotype New trend to present GLBT in positive ways New cable network LOGO Media should present healthy sexual relationships

Phone Sex : Dial-a-Porn Commercial telephone sex lines that enable the caller to anonymously “talk dirty” with someone Phone worker is paid to respond to the caller’s fantasies Creates a sense of “pseudo-intimacy” with the voice

Online Sexual Activities Global (adult web pages online) Cybersex – real-time sexual activities Popularity due to 3A’s Access Affordability Anonymity Online sex Web sites/chat rooms (ex. Babblesex) Meet new partners (ex. Adult Friend Finder)

Online Sexual Activities Effect on Culture Crosses distance Promotes intimacy without physical contact Creates a new level of plasticity and expression Positive for expression of under represented groups Negative if it becomes compulsive or addictive

Online Sexual Activities Effect on Culture Online social networks Surfing the web—major recreational activity Easy to obtain and distribute sexual information Expanded ways for people to meet and interact Well integrated into the daily lives of young adults Means for displaying identity

Sexuality Across Cultures and Times What is considered “natural” varies between cultures In America, kissing is considered erotic The Mehinaku of the Amazonian rain forest consider kissing to be a disgusting sexual abnormality Culture molds and shapes our sexual interests. Culture defines how and to what degree we should express our sexual interest.

Cultural Differences: Mangaia of Polynesia Adolescents (13 -14 yrs) are encouraged by adults to experience a high level of sexual desire: Adolescents are instructed on how to please their partner Adolescent boys and girls are instructed by older women via sexual intercourse. A woman may leave a man who does not satisfy her Adolescents are expected to have many sexual experiences prior to marriage Adulthood is marked by a decrease in sexual desire

Cultural Differences: The Dani of New Guinea Little interest in sexuality Sex is used only for reproduction Extra relational sex and jealousy is rare Female orgasm is unknown 5 year sexual abstinence between pregnancies

Cultural Differences: Victorian Americans Women had reproductive desire rather than sexual desire Women with sexual desire classified as suffering from “nymphomania, or furor uterinus” Men were viewed as animal like Men had raging, uncontrollable sexual appetites and their sexual indiscretions were expected.

Victorian Americans: Long Lasting Effects The polar beliefs about women and men and sexual desire lead to the separation of “love” and “sex”. Women’s responsibility to tame men’s impulses, men could not control their sexual desires. This belief and system of practice began the sexual double standard for men and women where men are sexually aggressive and women are sexually passive.

Sexual Orientation: The Pattern of Sexual and Emotional Attraction Based on the Gender of One’s Preferred Partners Heterosexuality: sexual and emotional attraction between men and women Homosexuality: sexual and emotional attraction between persons of the same sex Bisexuality: sexual and emotional attraction between both males and females

Contemporary American Culture Heterosexuality is the only sexual orientation receiving full social and legal legitimacy State by state recognition of civil unions Same-sex marriages do not generally receive social accepatance.

Homosexuality, Bisexuality, and Culture: Ancient Greece In ancient Greece, homosexuality was as naturally accepted as heterosexuality is in the US culture today Roles for men in Ancient Greece Highest form of love: Same-sex relationships between men (older mentor and young apprentice) Young men were then socialized into the professional society of other men Men were also expected to be married but were expected to have courtesans Roles of women Child bearing was associated with marriage to continue the family and society.

Homosexuality, Bisexuality, and Culture: Sambians of New Guinea Sexual orientation is malleable across lifespan, beginning with sexual activity between boys (beginning at age 7-8), betrothal and sexual activity with pre-adolescent girls, then fully involved with adult women in adulthood Semen ingestion is required for a boy to grow into a man Adulthood marks the end of sexual activities between males

Gender and Culture Gender: What makes a person a man or woman goes beyond simple anatomy. Having male and female genitals is anatomical, but does not necessarily make a person a “man” or “woman”. Culture and other factors help to shape masculinity and femininity. Gender is the set of culturally-influenced characteristics associated with being male or female

Transsexual and Transgender Persons Transsexual - Genitals and gender identities are discordant A person born with a penis self-identifies as a woman A person born with a vulva and vagina self- identifies as a man Transgendered – Have an appearance and behaviors that do not conform with the gender roles ascribed to a particular sex

Transsexual and Transgender Persons Transgendered These differences may involve cross-dressing only to obtain psychosocial gratification, not sexual gratification as seen in transvestites. Transsexuals may have genitals altered for gender congruency.

Transsexual / gender and culture: Two spirits Biological males who assume female dress, gender role, and status Accepted as a “man-woman” and given spiritual status in several cultures worldwide Includes some Native American, Filipino, Lapp, and Indian cultures In South Asia the third gender is known as the hijra, and are regarded as sacred. Some females considered “two-spirit,” but more rare than with males

Societal Norms and Sexuality Diversity across cultures and times Calls into question what is inherently natural or normal Words like “natural,” “unnatural,” “normal,” and “abnormal” are value judgments They often state how we feel about behaviors, rather than objectively describing those behaviors

Natural Sexual Behavior How do we decide if a sexual behavior is natural or unnatural? What is natural? What is unnatural? “When we label sexual behavior as “natural” or “unnatural” we are typically indicating whether the behavior conforms to our culture’s sexual norms. Our norms appear natural because we have internalized them since infancy”.

Normal Sexual Behavior Behavior that conforms to a group’s average or median patterns of behavior. “Although “normal” has been described to imply “healthy” or “moral” behavior, social scientists use the word strictly as a statistical term. Thus, “NORMAL sexual behavior is a behavior that conforms to a group’s average or median patterns of behavior.”

Normal Sexual Behavior Many people feel pressure to behave like the statistical norm Ironically, most of us actually don’t know how others behave sexually Most people do not talk about their sexual activities, especially those that they perceive as being outside the norm. If people do talk, they talk about behaviors that comply to the “norm”. Thus, the “conventional” self masks actual feelings, attitudes, and sexual behaviors.

Normal Sexual Behavior A comparison of “normal” sexual behavior in one culture would be considered “abnormal” by another. There is one concordant belief across most cultures that reproduction between men and women is essential.

Sexual Behaviors and Variations Researchers view human sexuality as characterized by sexual variation, i.e. sexual variety and diversity Understand sexual activities as existing on a continuum of frequency and behavior People’s activities can be typical or atypical of the group average—does not necessarily indicate deviance

Sexual Behaviors and Variations Many activities thought of as “deviant” are engaged in by most of us to some degree: Exhibitionism Voyeurism Fetishism

Sexual Behaviors and Variations Standards for evaluating sexual behavior do exist Many sexual behaviors are harmful to oneself Masturbatory asphyxia Rape Child molestation Obscene phone calls Psychological standards for determining the harmfulness of sexual behaviors Issues of coercion Potential harm to oneself or others Personal distress

Authors’ Standard The authors of the text believe that the basic standard for judging various sexual activities is: Whether they are between consenting adults Whether they cause harm It is up to the individual to evaluate the ethical or moral aspect of behavior in accordance with his or her values. “Because everyone’s sexuality does not completely overlap with the norm, the only liberating approach is to envision it with some perspective of variation”

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