Why do people sins? Ignorance, pleasure, addiction, unconcern Moral weakness Lack of virtue Christians are not to “conform” to the world: Rom. 12:1-2 3 Peer Pressure Can be positive or negative; who we associate with determines its direction of influence (Prov. 13:20; 1 Cor. 15:33).
Companions: 1 Cor. 15:33; Psa. 1:1 We need to be extremely careful who we chose as companions! May be some of our most important choices in life! Joseph’s brothers: Gen. 37:18-20 Amnon and Jonadab: 2 Sam. 13:1-14 4
False religions: Jn. 9:18-23 Social club atmosphere, everyone wants to “fit in” (PC). Preachers face this danger too! 2 Tim. 4:1-4 Pressure to please men can be very strong! Gal. 2:
Family: Matt. 10:34-39 Some do not obey the gospel due to family pressure. Some Christians also cave to family pressure. Children must obey their parents, wives must be submissive to their husbands: Eph. 6:1-3; 5:22 BUT, don’t follow their bad habits, set a good example regardless, make sure you have your own faith! 6
Employer: Gen. 39:7-9; 1 Tim. 5:8 Desire to please to retain job, gain promotion, etc. Desire to get along with co-workers. Don’t want to bring “hardship” on co- workers. We must not allow our need to make a living destroy our soul! Matt. 6:33 7
Government: Dan. 3:12, 16-18; 2 Sam. 11:14-17 Who knows how much pressure we, as a congregation, may face in the very near future?! Will churches be forced “underground”? Will we pressure one another to conform? 8
School: So many issues: evolution, homosexuality, pre-marital sex, alcohol, drugs, etc. Students are vulnerable; if don’t “tow the party line” may affect your grades. Don’t cave! Fight the good fight! These people are not as smart as they think! 9
Society in general: For example, young people today are mocked if they are a virgin: 1 Cor. 6:18; Heb. 13:4 If you don’t support abortion you are “anti- women.” If you don’t celebrate homosexuality and same-sex marriage you “on the wrong side of history.” 10
Crowd: Ex. 23:2 Good example in the Old Testament: Ex. 32:1 Don’t underestimate the power of a crowd to influence your behavior. The majority are usually wrong, not right! 11
Sins arise from peer pressure: 1 Pet. 4:3-4 Pleasing your date? Pleasing your friends? Please team members? Coach? Desire to be popular; “in crowd”? People will do things in a group setting they would never do as an individual! 12
Bad habits formed early in life: 1 Cor. 15:33 Smoking, drinking, drugs, cursing, etc. Cursing/ebonics: Coach Lewis If you never start you never get hooked: Jer. 17:1-2 13
Sins committed by adults: 1 Cor. 15:33 Cheat/steal on the job; don’t give a full day’s work for a full day’s pay. Miss services due to other “obligations.” Socialize with co-workers (e.g., drinking, water-cooler talk). 14
Remember who we are to fear: Lk. 12:4-5 Chief rulers forgot this: Jn. 12:42-43 Peter and Barnabas forgot this: Gal. 2:11-14 Let’s imitate Paul: 1 Thess. 2:4; Gal. 1:10 Cannot serve two masters! Matt. 6:24 15
Choose companions wisely: 1 Cor. 15:33 Jesus associated with sinners so can I: Matt. 9:9-13 Is that our purpose? How long will they associate with us if we follow Jesus? Do your “friends” care about your eternal soul? 16
Be careful where you go: Psa. 1:1 “Wrong place at the wrong time.” Verily I say unto you: “Don’t go to the wrong place in the first place!” Weak Christians often place themselves in difficult situations: 2 Pet. 2:7-8 Chose your job/career very carefully. 17
Learn the word of God: How did Jesus confront temptations? Matt. 4:4, 7, 10 How do we confront temptations? Psa. 119:11 18
Grow in virtue: 2 Pet. 1:5, 8-10 Virtue: moral excellence, goodness, righteousness. From “valor”; expresses the idea of moral and spiritual courage and excellence. The courage to do what is right just for the sake of “rightness.” 19
Assemble regularly: Heb. 10:23-25 Regular association with God’s people critical: Heb. 3:13 Use hospitality to cultivate strong friendships with faithful Christians: 1 Pet. 4:9; 2 Pet. 1:1 20
Why keep His commandments? Eccl. 12:13-14 Do you have the moral and spiritual courage? Gal. 1:10 The payoff is great! Rom. 6:23; Acts 6:7 21