Lesson 9:. Challenging Dangers of Today’s Culture Challenging Dangers of Today’s Culture – Our culture is constantly pulling at our youth Pulling them.

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Lesson 9:

Challenging Dangers of Today’s Culture Challenging Dangers of Today’s Culture – Our culture is constantly pulling at our youth Pulling them into self-indulgent, peer-centered isolation Pulling them into self-indulgent, peer-centered isolation Pulling them away from parents & mature Christian adults Pulling them away from parents & mature Christian adults – Our culture is constantly villainizing parents Convincing kids their parents are “against them” Convincing kids their parents are “against them” – Our culture is playing a powerful role (perhaps the most powerful role) in the formation of young people’s values Helping young people determine right vs. wrong Helping young people determine right vs. wrong – Our culture does not and is not encouraging “critical thinking” The unbiased collection of data from various sources and drawing only such conclusions demanded by the evidence The unbiased collection of data from various sources and drawing only such conclusions demanded by the evidence – Our culture does/is not helping teens grow into mature adults

Challenging Dynamics of Today’s Families Challenging Dynamics of Today’s Families – Families are experiencing the impact of: Divorce, blended families & step-parents Divorce, blended families & step-parents Single parents Single parents Living in “two homes” & non-traditional families Living in “two homes” & non-traditional families Aging parents & grandparents Aging parents & grandparents Poverty Poverty Both parents working outside the home Both parents working outside the home Busy schedules and busy families Busy schedules and busy families – Now, more than ever: Christian parents are struggling to be Christian parents Christian parents are struggling to be Christian parents Christian youth are struggling to be Christian youth Christian youth are struggling to be Christian youth Christian homes are struggling to be Christian homes Christian homes are struggling to be Christian homes Families are hurting for direction, meaning & encouragement Families are hurting for direction, meaning & encouragement

Challenging Directions of Today’s Church Youth Programs Challenging Directions of Today’s Church Youth Programs – Even in the church, young people are being isolated from their parents and mature Christian adults Youth Programs begin to look like a “one-eared Mickey Mouse” Youth Programs begin to look like a “one-eared Mickey Mouse” Youth often have nothing vested in the church when they walk out as high school seniors Youth often have nothing vested in the church when they walk out as high school seniors Congregation Youth Program

Challenging Directions of Today’s Church Youth Programs Challenging Directions of Today’s Church Youth Programs – “Successful” (so-called) Youth Programs often: Achieve a strong commitment to the youth group but not to the church or to Christ Achieve a strong commitment to the youth group but not to the church or to Christ Provide wonderful (and memorable) youth group experiences, but create little interest in pursuing one’s own faith as an adult Provide wonderful (and memorable) youth group experiences, but create little interest in pursuing one’s own faith as an adult Develop mature Christian teenagers but fail to put them on the track toward mature Christian adulthood Develop mature Christian teenagers but fail to put them on the track toward mature Christian adulthood Focus on short-term objectives rather than long-term goals Focus on short-term objectives rather than long-term goals Turn “Bible classes” into “Opinion Sharing Sessions” and “Fun and Games,” rather than unashamedly using God’s Word to create, feed and build their own faith Turn “Bible classes” into “Opinion Sharing Sessions” and “Fun and Games,” rather than unashamedly using God’s Word to create, feed and build their own faith

Challenging Directions of Today’s Church Youth Programs Challenging Directions of Today’s Church Youth Programs – “Successful” (so-called) Youth Programs often: Put the emphasis on the “bells and whistles” to motivate teens, focus on numbers and think “bigger is better” Put the emphasis on the “bells and whistles” to motivate teens, focus on numbers and think “bigger is better” Do very little, if anything, for parents and the family. Parents are sometimes seen as an interruption, intrusion or obstacle to success, and are, therefore, not wanted and shut out. Do very little, if anything, for parents and the family. Parents are sometimes seen as an interruption, intrusion or obstacle to success, and are, therefore, not wanted and shut out. Have the kids “dropped off” away from the parents, away from the church, to do their own thing. Have the kids “dropped off” away from the parents, away from the church, to do their own thing. There is no such thing as successful youth ministry that isolates teenagers from the Lord’s church family. There is no such thing as successful youth ministry that isolates teenagers from the Lord’s church family. – Youth Programs sometimes make the wrong assumption that spiritual maturity can be mass-produced, when it requires individual attention and effort

Observations Observations – The primary responsibility for young people is given to parents – The church also has a responsibility to its youth (cf. Titus 2) Young Christians are still our brothers & sisters in Christ (cf. 1 Tim. 5:1-2; Gal. 3:28; Rom. 12:5; 1 Cor. 12:12-27) Young Christians are still our brothers & sisters in Christ (cf. 1 Tim. 5:1-2; Gal. 3:28; Rom. 12:5; 1 Cor. 12:12-27) – Young people will rise to the expectations set for them

3 things that influence the development of faith in a child 3 things that influence the development of faith in a child – WHAT HAPPENS IN THE HOME Parents are the primary influence in teens’ lives Parents are the primary influence in teens’ lives Unfortunately, too many are not doing our jobs adequately Unfortunately, too many are not doing our jobs adequately – Only 34% of families eat one meal together each day – Avg. father spends 8 min/day with his children – Only 12% of families pray together – Avg. couple spends 4 min/day of uninterrupted time – We do not have time for relationships; that’s what our behavior says to our children.

3 things that influence the development of faith in a child 3 things that influence the development of faith in a child – WHAT HAPPENS IN THE HOME Parents are the primary influence in teens’ lives Parents are the primary influence in teens’ lives Unfortunately, too many are not doing our jobs adequately Unfortunately, too many are not doing our jobs adequately The tremendous power of parents’ influence on their children is part of God’s design The tremendous power of parents’ influence on their children is part of God’s design – Not particularly b/c of a “lesson taught” but a life lived – The strength of relationship btwn parents and their teens fortifies teenagers with the courage to make wise choices – A church that focuses on building a level of family closeness that fortifies children and youth is essential – The most powerful resource that congregations have for their youth programs are the teenagers’ parents themselves

3 things that influence the development of faith in a child 3 things that influence the development of faith in a child – WHAT HAPPENS IN THE HOME Parents are the primary influence in teens’ lives Parents are the primary influence in teens’ lives Unfortunately, too many are not doing our jobs adequately Unfortunately, too many are not doing our jobs adequately The tremendous power of parents’ influence on their children is part of God’s design The tremendous power of parents’ influence on their children is part of God’s design Deuteronomy 6:4-9 is a parent’s God-given duty. This is not so much about teaching/talking as it is about living, as it is about spending time with our families and “doing ministry” with our families. Youth ministries can assist parents in their roles, but they can’t replace those roles. Deuteronomy 6:4-9 is a parent’s God-given duty. This is not so much about teaching/talking as it is about living, as it is about spending time with our families and “doing ministry” with our families. Youth ministries can assist parents in their roles, but they can’t replace those roles. Children must see true Christianity lived out in front of them Children must see true Christianity lived out in front of them Children will look as much like Jesus as their parents and fellow church members do. Children will look as much like Jesus as their parents and fellow church members do.

3 things that influence the development of faith in a child 3 things that influence the development of faith in a child – WHAT HAPPENS IN THE CHURCH The entire church (not just the youth program) has a tremendous influence on the development of faith The entire church (not just the youth program) has a tremendous influence on the development of faith In the lives of its young people, the church cannot (and must not try to) compete with: In the lives of its young people, the church cannot (and must not try to) compete with: – Academics, athletics or any other organization… – Community churches, denominational churches, or parachurch organizations…

3 things that influence the development of faith in a child 3 things that influence the development of faith in a child – WHAT HAPPENS IN THE CHURCH The Lord’s church must stay focused on its young people’s individual (not mass-produced) relationships with Christ The Lord’s church must stay focused on its young people’s individual (not mass-produced) relationships with Christ – Not individual relationships with a “Youth Evangelist” – Not happiness with every decision made by the elders – Not compromising church plans for the sake of school/sports plans (incl. the prom) – Not trying to be entertainment-based and draw in big numbers

3 things that influence the development of faith in a child 3 things that influence the development of faith in a child – WHAT HAPPENS IN THE CHURCH The Lord’s church must stay focused on its young people’s individual (not mass-produced) relationships with Christ The Lord’s church must stay focused on its young people’s individual (not mass-produced) relationships with Christ In the grand scheme, youth ministries, in and of themselves, have limited power to produce long lasting change in young people’s lives. In the grand scheme, youth ministries, in and of themselves, have limited power to produce long lasting change in young people’s lives. – Youth programs need to be used as tools to equip parents to teach, train and target (on heaven) their own children – Youth programs need to facilitate meaningful intergenerational interactions, “connections” and relationships of young people with mature Christian adults, from whom they can learn about Christian values, growth and maturity

3 things that influence the development of faith in a child 3 things that influence the development of faith in a child – WHAT HAPPENS IN THE CHURCH The Lord’s church must stay focused on its young people’s individual (not mass-produced) relationships with Christ The Lord’s church must stay focused on its young people’s individual (not mass-produced) relationships with Christ In the grand scheme, youth ministries, in and of themselves, have limited power to produce long lasting change in young people’s lives. In the grand scheme, youth ministries, in and of themselves, have limited power to produce long lasting change in young people’s lives. The entire church (not just the youth program) has a tremendous influence on the development of faith The entire church (not just the youth program) has a tremendous influence on the development of faith When young people graduate from high school, research shows that they need seven meaningful “connections” to the church (apart from the youth program) for them to remain faithful in their Christian worship and service to God When young people graduate from high school, research shows that they need seven meaningful “connections” to the church (apart from the youth program) for them to remain faithful in their Christian worship and service to God