Developing Management Skills

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Developing Management Skills Chapter 4: Building Relationships by Communicating Supportively © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Learning Objectives Build supportive relationships even when delivering negative feedback Avoid defensiveness and disconfirmation in interpersonal communication Improve ability to apply principles of supportive communication Improve relationships by using personal management interviews © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Positive Relationships Result in better physical and emotional well-being Help people perform better at work and concentrate more on the task at hand. © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Frequent Organizational Problems Reliance of technology Dominance of e-mail Less face-to-face communication © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Problems with Electronic Communication Too much information, low quality No content to information, lacks meaning Interpretation of information depends on relationships with sender © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Communication Problems “Most individuals don’t seem to feel a strong need to improve their own skill level” © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Focus on Accuracy The ability to transmit clear and precise messages. © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Inconsistent Pronunciations ‘We polish Polish Furniture.’ ‘He could lead if he would get the lead out.’ ‘A farm can produce produce.’ ‘The dump was so full it had to refuse refuse.’ ‘The present is a good time to present a present.’ ‘The dove dove into the bushes.’ © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Relationships Between Unskillful Communication and Interpersonal Relationships © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Supportive Communication Helps the sender communicate accurately and honestly without jeopardizing interpersonal relationships. © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Attributes of Supportive Communication Specific Conjunctive Owned Supportive Listening Congruent Descriptive Problem-Oriented Validating © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Coaching and Counseling Coaching: giving advice, direction or information to improve performance. Counseling: helping someone understand and resolve a problem him/herself by displaying understanding © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Coaching and Counseling Coaching: focuses on abilities Counseling: focuses on attitudes © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

When to Coach Lack of ability Insufficient information Incompetence Subordinate must understand the problem © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

When to Counsel Personality clashes Defensiveness Other factors tied to emotions “I can help you recognize that a problem exists.” © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Obstacles to Communication DEFENSIVENESS One individual feels threatened or attacked as a result of the communication Self-protection becomes paramount Energy is spent on constructing a defense rather than on listening Aggression, anger, competitiveness, and/or avoidance as a result of the communication © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Obstacles to Communication DISCONFIRMATION Individual feels incompetent, unworthy, or insignificant as a result of the communication Attempts to reestablish self-worth take precedence Energy is spent trying to portray self-importance rather than on listening Showing off, self-centered behavior, withdrawal, and/or loss of motivation are common reactions © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Supportive Communication Based on congruence: a match between what an individual is thinking and feeling © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Supportive Communication Is descriptive and reduces the tendency to evaluate and cause defensiveness. © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Descriptive Communication Describes objectively the event, behavior, or circumstance Focus on the behavior and your reaction Focus on solutions © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Supportive Communication Is problem-oriented and does not focus on personal traits which cannot be changed. © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Supportive Communication Validates and helps others feel recognized, understood, accepted, and valued. © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Invalidating Communication Conveys Superiority Rigidity Indifference Imperviousness © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Validating Communication Egalitarian Flexible Two-way Based on agreement © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Supportive Communication Is specific and identifies something that can be understood and acted upon. © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Global Communication Focuses on extremes and absolutes which deny any alternatives. “My way or the highway!” © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Supportive Communication Is conjunctive and joined to a previous message. © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Disjunctive Communication Occurs when there is, Lack of opportunity for others to speak Extended pauses Topic control © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Interaction Management Creates conjunction by: Taking turns speaking Management of timing Topic Control © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Continuum of Conjunctive Statements Insert figure 4.2 © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Supportive Communication Is owned and acknowledges the source of the idea. Ownership conveys responsibility. © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Disowned Communication Results in the listener never being sure of whose point of view the message represents. © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Supportive Communication Requires active listening and responding effectively to someone else’s statements. © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Effective Listening In skills important for managers, effective listening was ranked highest. Individuals usually understand about a fourth of what is communicated. © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Responding to Others Four Types of Responses Advising Deflecting Probing Reflecting © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Advising Provides direction, evaluation, personal opinion, or instruction Creates listener control over the topic Can produce dependence © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Deflecting Switches the focus from communicator’s problem to on selected by the listener Appropriate if reassurance is needed Imply that the communicator’s issues are not important © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Probing Asks questions about what the communicator said Used to gather information Can appear that the communicator must justify what is happening © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Four Types of Probes Elaboration Clarification Repetition Reflection © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Reflecting Mirror back to the communicator the message that was heard Involves paraphrasing and clarifying Could appear that the listener isn’t listening © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Personal Management Interview A regularly scheduled, one-on-one meeting between management and subordinates © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Personal Management Interview Step 1: A role-negotiation session which sets expectations’ of employees and managers. Step 2: A set of on-going one on one meetings to development and improvement. © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Cultural and Communication Language pattern and structures are dramatically different across cultures There are, however, universal principles that apply to interpersonal problems © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Behavioral Guidelines Differentiate between coaching situations and counseling situations Use problem-oriented statements rather than person-oriented statements Communicate congruently by acknowledging your true feelings without acting them out in destructive ways © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Behavioral Guidelines Use descriptive, not evaluative, statements Use validating statements that acknowledge the other person’s importance and uniqueness Use specific rather than global statements when correcting behavior Use conjunctive statements that flow smoothly from what was said previously © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -

Behavioral Guidelines Own your statements, and encourage the other person to do likewise Demonstrate supportive listening Implement a personal management interview program characterized by supportive communication © 2007 by Prentice Hall 4 -