Child Training Objectives. Child Training Goal & Objectives Objectives to help us reach the ultimate goal What is God’s job description for parenting?

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Child Training Objectives

Child Training Goal & Objectives Objectives to help us reach the ultimate goal What is God’s job description for parenting? Nothing profound, nothing new We constantly need to refocus on goals We get distracted by pressures of world Purpose of assembling is to apply to life If you have problems, think of how to use God’s wisdom in scripture for solution Compartmentalized thinking leads to seeking worldly solutions to problems in this world

God’s Will Psalm 127 children are a blessing from God “Not mine!” don’t listen, etc. Also consider Proverbs 10:1 Prov. 22:15 explains why he needs guidance God didn’t make him a smart-mouth God didn’t intend for him to be rebellious He need not be selfish & miserable God wants parent & child to be happy together Principles apply to all relationships in life 3 Jn 4

God’s Goal for Parenting Clear view of goal is key: Objectives to meet in process of the goal Objectives determine methods to reach goal Ephesians 6:4 training and warning of the Lord Allusion to Proverbs 3:11-12 father is to give God’s instruction Children are God’s children Heb. 12:9 Parents are stewards, caretakers, caregivers Heb. 12:3-11 also applies Prov. 3:11-12 God’s instruction for relationship to Him

God’s Goal for Parenting Heb 12:3-11 V.5 you have forgotten the exhortation… Life pressures distract (don’t let them—v.1-2) Prov. 3:11-12 V.7 God chastens us because He is a father Child without training = child without father V.8 Child can reject discipline and make themselves illegitimate (v.5) V.9 choose to submit to God’s discipline & live V.10 recognizes that fathers make mistakes

God’s Goal for Parenting Heb 12:3-11 V.10 for our good Share in God’s holiness V.11 unpleasant at present (physically & emotionally) All training (not just punishment) is sorrowful For both parent and child Goal is peaceable fruit of righteousness Goal is godliness “training of the Lord” v.10 Godliness is by choice—independent godliness v.9

God’s Goal for Parenting Heb 12:3-11 child to choose life, God’s holiness, peaceable fairness Spiritual maturity, independent godliness What if every parental decision was deliberately made with God’s holiness in mind? We usually give little long-term thought to the effects of our decisions (often “little” issues) Does this bring child closer to God & His way or closer to the world and farther from God? Does this encourage child’s love for God or world or self?

Objectives to Reach God’s Goal Self-control vs. self-indulgent (selfishness) Actions based on what God says is right and not by feelings or passions 1 John 2:16, Prov. 14:12 Wisdom vs. foolishness Prov. 1:7 Must understand need for control Control implies authority, God’s standard of behavior “in control” “under control” Child must know what godliness is to strive for it Responsibility vs. irresponsibility 2 Cor. 5:10 Subjects himself to control, chooses actions Self-control + Wisdom + Responsibility

Self-control vs. Self-indulgent Will is in control (not passions) educated by God’s word as to what is right Free of bad habits, able to choose what is right Less focus on self leads to selflessness What is good for other others Self-indulgent: Can’t accept “No” (control) Can’t tell self “No” Feels entitled to every impulse he has no reason not to have what he wants If you give him a reason, he will scoff at it

Self-control vs. Self-indulgent Self-indulgent: Impatient, instant gratification Hb 11:25 not interested in hard work or service but fun Not “What can I do for you?” but “What can you do for me?” Ungrateful for gifts, food, etc. happiness based on taste, my feelings, etc. Not easily satisfied Bored “I’m bored” = “I’m thinking of ME.” Inconsistent application of principles as only affects self

Wisdom vs. Foolishness Not born with understanding Learn from mistakes (consequences) See beyond the superficial; knows what is best Keeping a level head; doesn’t panic Wisdom is controlling process to avoid destructive actions based on warnings Foolishness repeats mistakes Can’t be trusted to be left alone Impulsive in speech and action; retaliatory Difficulty with time and money management

Responsibility vs. Irresponsibility Accepts personal responsibility for his actions How rebuke is received; accept or blame others Conscientious work habits; Dependable; punctual; keeps his word Takes initiative; not just do what you’re told Finish what he starts Know what is right, chose what is right, do what is right What do I do to help him choose right on his own?

Responsibility vs. Irresponsibility Irresponsibility Denies guilt Blames others Justifies self by including others Resents punishment Resents anything requiring effort Gives up easily, doesn’t finish Not interested in helping others These principles apply to everyone! Heb. 12:9- 11, Matt. 5:3-10, Rom. 10:9-10, Acts 2:38