John 4: Meanwhile his disciples urged him, “Rabbi, eat something.” 32 But he said to them, “I have food to eat that you know nothing about.” 31 Meanwhile his disciples urged him, “Rabbi, eat something.” 32 But he said to them, “I have food to eat that you know nothing about.”

John 4: Then his disciples said to each other, “Could someone have brought him food?”

John 4: “My food,” said Jesus, “is to do the will of him who sent me and to finish his work. 35 Do you not say, ‘Four months more and then the harvest’? I tell you, open your eyes and look at the fields! They are ripe for harvest.

John 4: Even now the reaper draws his wages, even now he harvests the crop for eternal life, so that the sower and the reaper may be glad together. 37 Thus the saying ‘One sows and another reaps’ is true.

38 I sent you to reap what you have not worked for. Others have done the hard work, and you have reaped the benefits of their labor.” John 4:31-38

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“The central problem for every society is to define appropriate roles for men.” Anthropologist, Margaret Meade “The central problem for every society is to define appropriate roles for men.” Anthropologist, Margaret Meade

Proverbs 29:18 Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keeps the law, happy is he. American King James Version Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keeps the law, happy is he. American King James Version

I Corinthians 15: So it is written: "The first man Adam became a living being"; the last Adam, a life-giving spirit. 46 The spiritual did not come first, but the natural, and after that the spiritual. 47 The first man was of the dust of the earth, the second man from heaven. (NIV)

Two different ways of life. Two different destinies. Two different masculinities. Two different ways of life. Two different destinies. Two different masculinities.

How does the Bible define being male?

1. A real man rejects passivity. Testosterone 90% of major crimes 100% of rapes 95% of burglaries 91% of domestic violence 94% of drunk drivers Testosterone 90% of major crimes 100% of rapes 95% of burglaries 91% of domestic violence 94% of drunk drivers

Genesis Serpent approaches Eve The proposition (3:5) “For God knows that in the day you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil. ” The proposition (3:5) “For God knows that in the day you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil. ”

Genesis Serpent approaches Eve The proposition (3:5) “For God knows that in the day you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil. ” The proposition (3:5) “For God knows that in the day you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil. ”

Genesis Serpent approaches Eve The proposition (3:5) “For God knows that in the day you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” The proposition (3:5) “For God knows that in the day you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”

Genesis Serpent approaches Eve The responsibility (2:16-17) 16 The L ORD God commanded the man, saying, “From any tree of the garden you may eat freely; 17 but from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat from it you will surely die.” The responsibility (2:16-17) 16 The L ORD God commanded the man, saying, “From any tree of the garden you may eat freely; 17 but from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat from it you will surely die.”

God had given man three primary responsibilities: A will to obey (don’t eat the fruit) A work to do (cultivate the garden) A woman to love (Eve) A will to obey (don’t eat the fruit) A work to do (cultivate the garden) A woman to love (Eve)

What was Adam doing while Eve was being propositioned? Genesis 3:6 When the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was desirable to make one wise, she took from its fruit and ate; and she gave also to her husband with her, and he ate. Genesis 3:6 When the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was desirable to make one wise, she took from its fruit and ate; and she gave also to her husband with her, and he ate.

Jesus was not passive, He was spiritually and socially engaged.

2. A Real Man Accepts Responsibility. Like Adam Jesus was also given three specific responsibilities: A will to obey (His Father’s) A work to do (Redeem the Lost) A woman to love (The Church) Like Adam Jesus was also given three specific responsibilities: A will to obey (His Father’s) A work to do (Redeem the Lost) A woman to love (The Church)

Jesus accepted these enthusiastically! Psalm 40:7-8 7 Then I said, behold, I come; In the scroll of the book it is written of me. 8 I delight to do Your will, O my God; Your Law is within my heart. Jesus accepted these enthusiastically! Psalm 40:7-8 7 Then I said, behold, I come; In the scroll of the book it is written of me. 8 I delight to do Your will, O my God; Your Law is within my heart.

John 4:34 Jesus said to them, “My food is to do the will of Him who sent Me and to accomplish His work. John 4:34 Jesus said to them, “My food is to do the will of Him who sent Me and to accomplish His work.

His responsibilities defined Him as a man, they gave Him vision & direction.

3. A Real Man Leads Courageously. I Corinthians 11:3 But I want you to understand that Christ is the head of every man, and the man is the head of a woman, and God is the head of Christ. Men were created to lead. I Corinthians 11:3 But I want you to understand that Christ is the head of every man, and the man is the head of a woman, and God is the head of Christ. Men were created to lead.

Temptation: 40 days Taken to a high mountain Shown all the Kingdoms “Do this, and you can have it all!” Taken to a high mountain Shown all the Kingdoms “Do this, and you can have it all!”

Matthew 4:10 Then Jesus said to him, “Go, Satan! For it is written, ‘YOU SHALL WORSHIP THE LORD YOUR GOD, AND SERVE HIM ONLY.’” Matthew 4:10 Then Jesus said to him, “Go, Satan! For it is written, ‘YOU SHALL WORSHIP THE LORD YOUR GOD, AND SERVE HIM ONLY.’”

He makes decisions not by feelings but truth.

He calls it stewardship which means He owns it all.

4. A Real Man Expects the Greater Reward.

Jesus did it all with His eyes set on the joy before Him. Hebrews 12:1-2 1 Therefore, since we have so great a cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us also lay aside every encumbrance and the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, Hebrews 12:1-2 1 Therefore, since we have so great a cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us also lay aside every encumbrance and the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us,

Jesus did it all with His eyes set on the joy before Him. Hebrews 12:1-2 2 fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Hebrews 12:1-2 2 fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.

John 10:10 “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly. I Corinthians 2:9 but just as it is written, “THINGS WHICH EYE HAS NOT SEEN AND EAR HAS NOT HEARD, AND which HAVE NOT ENTERED THE HEART OF MAN, ALL THAT GOD HAS PREPARED FOR THOSE WHO LOVE HIM.” John 10:10 “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly. I Corinthians 2:9 but just as it is written, “THINGS WHICH EYE HAS NOT SEEN AND EAR HAS NOT HEARD, AND which HAVE NOT ENTERED THE HEART OF MAN, ALL THAT GOD HAS PREPARED FOR THOSE WHO LOVE HIM.”

I Timothy 4:8 for bodily discipline is only of little profit, but godliness is profitable for all things, since it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come. I Timothy 6:6 But godliness actually is a means of great gain when accompanied by contentment. I Timothy 4:8 for bodily discipline is only of little profit, but godliness is profitable for all things, since it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come. I Timothy 6:6 But godliness actually is a means of great gain when accompanied by contentment.

What to expect: Honorable name. Respect & admiration of wife. Well adjusted respectful children. Respect of community. Blessings. Growing satisfaction with life. Honorable name. Respect & admiration of wife. Well adjusted respectful children. Respect of community. Blessings. Growing satisfaction with life.