Copyright © 2014 Pearson Education, Inc. 1 Topic: Change Sherfield and Moody Cornerstones

Copyright © 2014 Pearson Education, Inc. 2 What Do Employers Want? Excellent written/oral communication skills Problem solving skills Capacity to change and learn quickly Work well with others Computer literacy

Copyright © 2014 Pearson Education, Inc. 3 Ten Cornerstones for Success Passion Motivation Knowledge Resourcefulness Creativity Adaptability Open-mindedness Communication Accountability Vision

Copyright © 2014 Pearson Education, Inc. 4 Why Choose College? Most students say: “Show me the money!” What do you say?

Copyright © 2014 Pearson Education, Inc. 5 Education, Pay, and Unemployment

Copyright © 2014 Pearson Education, Inc. 6 What Can College Do for You? Become more civically/politically engaged Become more open-minded and accepting Develop problem solving skills Develop Computer/information literacy skills Become more financially independent Become a life-long learner

Copyright © 2014 Pearson Education, Inc. 7 Six Truths about College Success #1. Success is about choices, sacrifices, change -step outside your comfort zone #2. Higher education is a two-way street -you have to give in order to receive #3. Self-motivation and -responsibility required -no “victim mentality” allowed

Copyright © 2014 Pearson Education, Inc. 8 Six Truths about College Success #4. Self-management is key -remember 2-3 hour rule #5. This is not high school -recognize and embrace differences #6. Eliminate “This isn’t Harvard” syndrome -make the most out of your experience

Copyright © 2014 Pearson Education, Inc. 9 Bringing About Change Change is a skill – it is learned Change takes time – slow and systematic Change requires an attitude adjustment Change demands action and participation Change is about working toward something Change is about letting go and holding on

Copyright © 2014 Pearson Education, Inc. 10 Eliminating Roadblocks Eliminate “I CAN’T Syndrome” – Focus on positive aspects of life – Eliminate negative thoughts and self-talk – Visualize your success – Take responsibility What company do you keep? – Seek out positive, optimistic people – Avoid contaminated people who tear you down

Copyright © 2014 Pearson Education, Inc. 11 Set a Goal and Change Your Life! Think about a dream you have or a problem you need to solve Commitment and self-motivation will help you complete your goal

Copyright © 2014 Pearson Education, Inc. 12 Characteristics of Attainable Goals Reasonable – challenging but possible Believable – you can do it! Measureable – concrete, observable steps Adaptable – life happens! Controllable – you are responsible for change Desirable – you must want it and own it

Copyright © 2014 Pearson Education, Inc. 13 Steps for Effective Goal-Setting Goal statement and target date Action steps Narrative statement “I Deserve” statement Personal signature and commitment

Copyright © 2014 Pearson Education, Inc. 14 Topic Reflections Evaluate your reasons for attending college Use goal-setting Get involved in the changes in life and learning Eliminate negative self-talk Keep your sense of humor Be courageous and face your fears