Chapter 15 Divorce: Before and After Today’s High Divorce Rate Why Are Couples Divorcing Thinking About Divorce: Weighing the Alternatives Getting the Divorce The Economic Consequences of Divorce

Chapter 15 Divorce: Before and After Divorce and Children His and Her Divorce Forming Families: the Next Generation Should Divorce Be Harder to Get? Surviving Divorce

Difficulties in Reporting Divorces Number of divorces per year - There may be more divorces because there are more people. Ratio of current marriages to current divorces - marriages took place in the current year, but divorces are from earlier marriages. Crude divorce rate - includes those, children and unmarried, not at risk for divorce.

How Divorces Are Reported Lifetime records of marriage and divorce - doesn’t apply to younger couples because socio-historical conditions change over time. Refined divorce rate - does not predict whether one’s marriage will end in divorce.

Why Are Couples Divorcing Loss of income increases the risk of divorce. Marriage has been redefined as a nonpermanent union. Spouses may enter the union with reservations and behave as if their marriage could end.

Why Are Couples Divorcing Fewer social, legal and moral constraints. Having divorced parents increases the likelihood of divorce.

Factors Associated With Divorce Remarried mates Cohabitation before marriage Premarital pregnancy and child rearing Remaining child-free

Perspectives: Negative Effects of Divorce on Children Life stress - accumulation of stressors results in problems for children of divorce. Parental loss - assumes both parents in the same house is best for children. Parental adjustment - quality of parenting is important in children’s adjustment to divorce.

Reasons for Negative Effects of Divorce on Children Economic hardship - assumes the economic hardship caused is responsible for problems faced by children with divorced parents. Interparental conflict - conflict between parents is responsible for the lowered well- being of children of divorce.

His and Her Divorce Both ex-spouses are victims. The first year after divorce is stressful for both ex-spouses. If economic discrimination faced by women and gender role expectations faced by men were eliminated, the difficulties could be alleviated.

Her Divorce Women who were married a long time lose the identity associated with their husband’s status. Older women have few opportunities for career development. Divorced mothers must provide financial and day to day support for their children. Custodial mothers struggle with money, scheduling and discipline problems.

His Divorce Anger, grief and loneliness may be aggravated by the male gender role which discourages them from sharing feelings with other men. Noncustodial fathers retain the financial obligations of fatherhood while experiencing fewer of it’s joys. Visitation is often awkward and superficial.