1. Demographics demonstrate the Need 44% U. S adults - single/single – again Never married64.5 M 27.5% Divorced25.0 M 10.6% Widowed14.3 M 6.0% M 44.1% Separated 5.5 M 2.4% U.S. Census Bureau, Current Population Survey Social & Economic Supplement
Married households 2010 56 million……………………51.0 percent 1 st, 2 nd, 3 rd, 4 th marriages Unmarried households 55 million ……………..…… percent 14 million single women 5 million single men million single, “non family”- friends of same/opposite sex Reported in 10/15/06 Yahoo News, Maxim Kniazkov U.S. CENSUS BUREAU – 2010 American Community Survey CENSUS BUREAU
Divorce/ Divorce/Remarriage 43 % of first marriages divorce 1 60 % of remarriages with children divorce 1 65 % of remarriages with children from a prior marriage divorce 1 65 % of simple stepfamilies (1 partner with a child) divorce 2 70 % of complex stepfamilies (both partners have children) divorce 2 1 January 9, 2006, Newsweek, “The ‘Familymoon’” 2 In her book For Better or For Worse: Divorce Reconsidered, Dr. Hetherington specifies the divorce rate for step-couples to be “50 percent higher in remarriages with stepchildren” Specifically, then, the divorce rate is 65-70%. (p. 178).
2. People’s lives motivate the need Many needs/issues of young adults/single adults not addressed from biblical & unmarried perspective. Where are they getting their information?
Rearing kids alone Shared parenting Relating to my former spouse Sexuality and singleness Money management Peer Friendships Learning to forgive my ex Accepting Singleness Dating/dating again Divorce Recovery Living with mom/dad Understanding emotions Grief recovery Dealing with changes Learning to trust again Loneliness Humility Building an identity Singleness in a marriage & family-oriented church Career choice Pre-Marital education Re-Marital education Blending families Relating to married adults Adjusting to Widowhood
3. Their ministry potential validates the need Talents and creativity of single adults No need to check with a spouse to tithe or serve I Cor. 7: 8, – Singleness affords opportunity for ministry
4. Jesus’ life authenticates the need 33 yr. old never –married adult Greatest, most influential single adult Pattern your life after Him!
OUR FAITH IS BASED UPON: A Jewish single adult from Galilee Whose ministry was preceded by a single adult named John the Baptist Whose mission thrust was modeled by a single adult named Paul