David Steele

Harville Hendrix, Ph.D. and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D. “Conscious Dating provides a new concept for dating and insightful advice, effective exercises and useful illustrations that will help anyone who uses them make their journey to love successful. We recommend this book to anyone looking for love.” “Radical Marriage provides clear ideas, easy to follow strategies, and a ‘radical’ new paradigm for creating the relationship of your dreams.”

Dating has Changed

 Fewer marriages- 51% of U.S. adults

Dating has Changed  Fewer marriages- 51% of U.S. adults  44% believe marriage obsolete

Dating has Changed  Fewer marriages- 51% of U.S. adults  44% believe marriage obsolete  Cohabitation rate +1200% in last 30 years

Dating has Changed  Fewer marriages- 51% of U.S. adults  44% believe marriage obsolete  Cohabitation rate +1200% in last 30 years  Cohabitation increases risk of failed marriage

Relationship success starts when you’re single

Problem: Finding soulmate feels like locating needle in a haystack

Solution: Radical Dating is like using an electromagnet.

Solution: Radical Dating is like using an electromagnet… It can happen very quickly when you’re clear about what you want and how to get it. My story- From single to soulmate in 5 months:

5 Principles of Radical Dating

Principle #1: You deserve to love and be loved

5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #1: You deserve to love and be loved  Sabotages us when we don’t believe it.

5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #1: You deserve to love and be loved  Sabotages us when we don’t believe it.  We end up pleasing, settling for less, or giving up.

5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #1: You deserve to love and be loved  Sabotages us when we don’t believe it.  We end up pleasing, settling for less, or giving up.  It’s self-fulfilling.

5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #1: You deserve to love and be loved  Sabotages us when we don’t believe it.  We end up pleasing, settling for less, or giving up.  It’s self-fulfilling.  You must learn how to love yourself.

5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #2: Be Ready and Available for Commitment

5 Principles of Radical Dating  What might interfere with commitment? Principle #2: Be Ready and Available for Commitment

5 Principles of Radical Dating  What might interfere with commitment?  If you’re not ready, the relationship is doomed. Principle #2: Be Ready and Available for Commitment

5 Principles of Radical Dating  What might interfere with commitment?  If you’re not ready, the relationship is doomed.  Recreational vs. Committed Dating Principle #2: Be Ready and Available for Commitment

5 Principles of Radical Dating  What might interfere with commitment?  If you’re not ready, the relationship is doomed.  Recreational vs. Committed Dating  Role of the Law of Attraction Principle #2: Be Ready and Available for Commitment

5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #3: Honor Your Deepest Needs and Requirements

5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #3: Honor Your Deepest Needs and Requirements  Requirements

5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #3: Honor Your Deepest Needs and Requirements  Requirements  Needs – physical, functional and emotional

5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #3: Honor Your Deepest Needs and Requirements  Requirements  Needs – physical, functional and emotional  Boundaries and Assertiveness

5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #3: Honor Your Deepest Needs and Requirements  Requirements  Needs – physical, functional and emotional  Boundaries and Assertiveness  Wants

5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #3: Honor Your Deepest Needs and Requirements  Requirements  Needs – physical, functional and emotional  Boundaries and Assertiveness  Wants  Role of habits/patterns

o Your authentic self is your best attraction tool! 5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #4: Be True to Yourself

o Your authentic self is your best attraction tool! 5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #4: Be True to Yourself  Live your Values

o Your authentic self is your best attraction tool! 5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #4: Be True to Yourself  Live your Values  Love yourself

o Your authentic self is your best attraction tool! 5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #4: Be True to Yourself  Live your Values  Love yourself  Require 100% acceptance

o Your authentic self is your best attraction tool! 5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #4: Be True to Yourself  Live your Values  Love yourself  Require 100% acceptance  You can’t hide in a relationship

o Your authentic self is your best attraction tool! 5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #4: Be True to Yourself  Live your Values  Love yourself  Require 100% acceptance  You can’t hide in a relationship  Your authentic self is your best attraction tool

5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #5: True Love Requires Risk

5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #5: True Love Requires Risk  Comfort Zone = Stuck

5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #5: True Love Requires Risk  Comfort Zone = Stuck  If it’s scary, you’re doing it right

5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #5: True Love Requires Risk  Comfort Zone = Stuck  If it’s scary, you’re doing it right  Yes, Yes, Hell No!

5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #5: True Love Requires Risk  Comfort Zone = Stuck  If it’s scary, you’re doing it right  Yes, Yes, Hell No!  Real intimacy is scary and exciting

5 Principles of Radical Dating Principle #5: True Love Requires Risk  Comfort Zone = Stuck  If it’s scary, you’re doing it right  Yes, Yes, Hell No!  Real intimacy is scary and exciting  Radical Dating Radical Marriage

Strategies of Radical Dating

 Getting into action:

Strategies of Radical Dating  Getting into action:  Scouting

Strategies of Radical Dating  Getting into action:  Scouting  Sorting

Strategies of Radical Dating  Getting into action:  Scouting  Sorting  Screening

Strategies of Radical Dating  Getting into action:  Scouting  Sorting  Screening  Testing

Strategies of Radical Dating  Getting into action:  Scouting  Sorting  Screening  Testing  Screening In vs. Screening Out

Strategies of Radical Dating  Getting into action:  Scouting  Sorting  Screening  Testing  Screening In vs. Screening Out  You can achieve anything with the right support

Radical Dating

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