Thinking Outside the Blocks: Why It’s Critical for Your Congregation to Focus Beyond Its Early Childhood Center Mark I. Rosen, Ph.D. Brandeis University Cathy Rolland URJ Faculty, Early Childhood Education and Young Family Engagement Presented at the URJ Biennial 2013 December 12, San Diego, California Thinking Outside the Blocks: Why It’s Critical for Your Congregation to Focus Beyond Its Early Childhood Center Mark I. Rosen, Ph.D. Brandeis University Cathy Rolland URJ Faculty, Early Childhood Education and Young Family Engagement Presented at the URJ Biennial 2013 December 12, San Diego, California
Overview of Today’s Presentation Part 1: Jewish Early Childhood Education – The Context Part 2: Parents with Young Children – Who Are They and What Do They Want? Part 3: Reaching Families Who Are Not Enrolled in Your Early Childhood Center Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 2
PART 1: Jewish Early Childhood Education – The Context 3
Jewish ECE – An Uncertain Future In his 2013 State of the Union address, President Obama pledged to provide universal, high-quality pre-K education to our nation’s children He has proposed spending $75 billion in the next decade to expand access to preschool At present, less than one in every four Jewish families chooses a Jewish early childhood center If universal pre-K expands, what percentage of parents in your community will choose your early childhood center for their children? Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 4
The Joys of Jewish ECE Education: The high quality educational setting in a Jewish preschool prepares children for a lifetime of learning. Values: Jewish values and concepts are interwoven throughout the day and apply to all aspects of a child’s life. Tradition: Jewish holiday and life cycle celebrations are experienced in a way that is complementary to each family’s practice. Identity: Children develop long-lasting, positive emotional connections with Shabbat, Torah, and the Land of Israel, strengthening their Jewish identity. Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 5
The Joys of Jewish ECE Spirituality: Children are encouraged to think about, ask questions about, and develop their own relationship with God. Friendship and Community: Both children and parents make friends and become a part of the Jewish community locally and worldwide. Adapted from A Parent's Guide to Choosing A Jewish Early Childhood Program by the Alliance for Jewish Early Education Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 6
Jewish ECE Challenges Convenience Hours and holiday closings are often unworkable for families with two working parents Parents are increasingly moving to suburbs where there are no nearby Jewish early childhood centers Costs Jewish early childhood centers can be more costly than secular preschools Staffing Highly qualified preschool directors and teachers are hard to find Jewish trends Intermarriage rates are continuing to rise, and interfaith families are statistically less likely to choose a Jewish early childhood center Fewer Jewish adults are growing up with a strong Jewish identity and there is a consequently less interest in passing Jewish identity on to children Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 7
Thinking Outside the Blocks 8 In the face of these challenges, what can your congregation do to continue attracting families with young children? Answer: Develop family engagement programming
PART 2: Parents with Young Children – Who Are They and What Do They Want? 9
The Critical Role of Parents Parents, rather than educators and institutions, are the primary influence on their children’s development Parents make choices for their children Preschool Sunday school Summer camp Young children imitate their parents If parents don’t make Jewish choices, and don’t model Judaism at home, children will not grow up with a strong Jewish identity Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 10
Jewish Engagement Begins at Birth Preschool starts at two and a half or three, but Jewish life begins at birth What is your congregation doing for families with very young children? Reach out to parents when they have their first child Life changes dramatically; normal routines are disrupted Finances, work, identity, and relationships are all affected It takes about two years until parents settle into their new routine and lifestyle Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 11
Why It is Critical To Reach Parents By The Time Their Oldest Child Is Two During this transition period, parents are more open and receptive than they will be later on When children grow older and the family expands, receptivity among parents gradually lessens By the time their firstborn is two, parents have: created new routines made new friends developed loyalties with local institutions Parents have established a “new normal” and have settled into family life Will the “new normal” include Jewish life? Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 12
Parents are Looking for Jewish Connections Parents with young children: are not looking for Jewish learning are not inclined to join congregations are looking for Jewish connections Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 13
Question From a Recent Survey of Chicago-Area Parents Are you as connected to the Jewish community as you would like to be? Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 14
Families Who Were Not Synagogue Members Were Much More Likely to Be Looking For Connections Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 15 n=1,389
Parents Are Strongly Influenced by Peers Most parents learn about programs and institutions from their friends Secular friendships will lead to secular choices Jewish friendships lead to Jewish choices For those who are not connected to the Jewish community, connections start with Jewish friendships Connecting Jewish parents with each other should be a high priority Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 16
Survey Question At this point in your life, are you looking to develop new friendships? Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 17
Three out of Four Chicago-Area Parents Were Looking to Develop New Friendships Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 18 n=1,465
Families with Younger Children Were Even More Likely to Be Looking For New Friendships Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 19
Choosing a Jewish Early Childhood Center Parents learn about preschools from their friends Peers are an important influence on parents’ preschool decisions. Parents will go where their friends go For some families, Jewish sponsorship is not a high priority when choosing a preschool – it’s viewed as a nice additional benefit Schedule, travel time, cost, and quality are all important considerations Parents carefully consider whether a particular preschool is the right fit for their child and whether it matches their personal educational philosophy Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 20
Cost, Location, Fit, and Scheduling Are The Major Reasons Why Parents Who Considered a Jewish Early Childhood Center Did Not End Up Choosing One Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 21 Parents were instructed: “Choose all that apply.”
PART 3: Reaching Families Who Are Not Enrolled In Your Early Childhood Center 22
Overview of Best Principles 1.Be choosy about who works with families 2.Know your competition 3.Design programs with parents in mind 4.Relationships should be your main focus 5.Be sensitive to newcomers 6.Collaborate with community partners 7.Gain the support of internal stakeholders 8.Get the word out 23
1. Be Choosy About Who Works with Families Appoint a family engagement coordinator to focus on families not enrolled in your Jewish early childhood center Make sure the person has the right qualities: Outreach and social media skills Understands young families Warm, friendly, welcoming, inclusive Does not need to be a Jewish educator Not the early childhood director Identify experienced program leaders who parents are attracted to Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 24
2. Know Your Competition Lots of local institutions are offering programs for families with young children Find out which ones are popular and well attended Businesses that cater to families with young children Nonprofits such libraries and local parenting organizations Find out how parents learn about these programs Find out what the programs cost Talk with parents at your congregation to learn about where they go Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 25
3. Design Programs with Parents in Mind Parents want quality Create low barrier, easy access programming so that everyone feels comfortable regardless of their level of Jewish knowledge Recognize that some parents are self-conscious about their Jewish knowledge – uphold their sense of dignity Target programs for very specific ages - different types of programs are effective at different stages of a child’s growth Welcome basket with home visit for parents of newborns Playgroups for parents of infants Tot Shabbat, holiday programs, music programs for parents of toddlers Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 26
Design Programs with Parents in Mind Build in lots of informal time for socializing… avoid filling up all the time with programming Offering food is a good way to accomplish this Offer programs outside the building for those who are not comfortable coming to a Jewish institution Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 27
4. Relationships Should Be Your Main Focus Between parent and child Between parent and parent Between parent and Jewish role models Rabbis and cantors Jewish educators Other parents who are living a Jewish life You don’t just want to provide Jewish experiences, you want to create a community of parents who find a home at your congregation Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 28
5. Be Sensitive to Newcomers Be alert for new families so that they are welcomed and included in a warm, personal fashion DO NOT pressure families to join or enroll – let them come to you when they are ready Think of the process as similar to dating… feelings grow stronger over time after a series of positive experiences… it takes awhile to make a commitment Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 29
6. Collaborate with Community Partners Your congregation may or may not be the best fit for a particular family If you collaborate with other local congregations, parents will be exposed to a broader range of options, and the likelihood that they will find a place that appeals to their Jewish sensibilities will be enhanced The goal is get parents involved in Jewish life wherever they are most comfortable Put the needs and interests of parents first, and your congregation will benefit in the long-term Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 30
7. Gain the Support of Internal Stakeholders You will be more likely to succeed if you have support from congregational leadership Sell the importance of family engagement to clergy, Jewish educators, the president, and the board so that they are all supportive Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 31
8. Get the Word Out Parents won’t come to your programs unless they know about them. Publicize your programs using the same mechanisms that local parents use to find out about secular programs Be sure your publicity always mentions that programs are open to all, not just members, and that interfaith families are welcome Mark I. Rosen ▪ Brandeis University 32