The art of seduction- part 2

 Confidence!!! There are lots of things which you can do (the Korean movie).  M3 model: Attract, comfort (c1, c2, c3 locations), seduce (at c3 location)  Seven-hour rule: from attracting through comforting to seducing.  Make sure that there is strong rapport and mutual trust before the seduction stage. Review

 More guessing, not direct answers.  Use freeze-out and IOI (punishment and reward) to train him/her to treat you nicely. (Not too obvious.)  Games: truth/secret telling; music/movie tasting; role playing; murder/marry.  Photo routine; conspiracy; vulnerability  Create jealousy: using wings, phone calls More about the comfort stage

 Usually same as c3 location. Familiarity helps in lowering the shield.  A place without unexpected intrusion.  Safety concern.  Equipped with useful stuff (music, food, drinks) Seduction location

 Use the techniques when you really love him/her.  Never ask whether he/she has a significant other. (But make sure he/she is unmarried.)  Expressing how much you love him/her during seduction stage will not work.  Never let him/her think you are an easy one  For men, be aware of set-ups if things go too smoothly.  For girls, never give in too quickly. Seduction concepts

 Playful method: Ask her, “would you like to kiss me?”  If the answer is yes, just kiss her. If “maybe”, “don’t know”, still kiss her.  If the answer is no, tell her “I didn’t say you could. It just seemed that you had something on your mind.”  Gentle method: hand-shoulder-face; body contact from the back and smell then kiss  Exciting method Men kissing women

 Better accompanied with suitable perfume and “juicy” lips.  Any method triggering his moves is good.  Deep feeling method: Look at him with deep feelings, and close eyes.  Checking something method: Ask him to check whether there is something on your face, and close eyes.  Playful method: same as men’s method.  Implication method: Say, “you are not allowed to kiss me without my permission.” Women initiate/invite the kiss

 Last minute resistance (LMR).  Other advanced techniques (e.g. October man sequence).  Safe sex.  Be honest with your feelings.  It is ok to admit that not everyone is attracted to us. Final thoughts

 First, in a relation it’s better to wait for longer before entering the final intimacy stage.  Because it is easier to break up at earlier stages. (This is crucial if you have a dangerous/violent lover).  Not accepting expensive gifts is important.  Because you do not want him/her to think that you owe him/her too much. Perfect break-up: Introduction

 Understand him/her more before entering a relationship.  Observe carefully (with some pre-designed tests) and information from friends.  If he/she wants you to be a 1. copy machine; 2. GPS; 3. Pet; 4. TV; 5. ATM; 6. Sex toy.  Or, he/she gets mad very easily,…  Just break up the relationship! Perfect break-up: Identify risks

 The best way to break up is to let him/her do it (without knowing this is what you want).  Because in this way no one gets hurt.  Negative method: Show all your bad habits.  Compulsive method: Control everything; be extremely jealous.  External method: Ask someone else to love him/her. (Use this if the previous two methods do not work.)  Know where to get help and protection Perfect break-up: methods