SELF ESTEEM
TERMS 1.Self concept: total picture a person has of him/herself. 2. Self-esteem: feeling that you have something worthwhile to contribute.
*Self concept is developed early in life. *Good self-concept leads to high self esteem.
*Children develop their self-concept from what they believe the important people in their lives feel about them.
Self Concept Cycle As I see myself Other’s reactions My actions To me As others see me
Practices Likely to Decrease Self Esteem *Negative Comments
*Comparing a child to other’s in a negative way.
*Overprotecting or over helping.
Practices Likely to Increase Self Esteem *Provide successful experiences
*Treat with love and respect.
* Praise accomplishments
*Avoid competition
Give room to achieve and explore.
*Let children make choices when possible.
*Encourage independence.
*Let them hear you making positive comments about them.
*Remember: building a child’s self esteem is a day to day process, not a one time thing.