Mary Lynn Manns Green Drinks March 2010. Large opposing goals The belief that this is not a pressing issue A “collective action” issue “Others” are.

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Mary Lynn Manns Green Drinks March 2010

Large opposing goals The belief that this is not a pressing issue A “collective action” issue “Others” are in a better position to solve it Blame Disconnection from our environment The “too rational” versus the “too emotional” It is a system issue Concentrating on the symptoms rather than the beliefs, challenges, assumption, and values that created the problem

Difficult to understand Information overload Conflicting (example: Scientists vs. Media) May not be delivered by a trusted communicator Can be easily dismissed Does not necessarily prompt action Above all, the history of climate change shows that perceptions of the issues are by no means driven only – or even primarily – by facts, evidence and rational argument. (Climate Change: The State of the Debate, Center on International Cooperation, 2007)

“Learned helplessness” Defense mechanisms to protect ourselves from realities: Rationalize Deny Compartmentalize Disconnect Maintain ignorance Yeh, there is always something to worry about Guilt or shame – dig in your heals Can get creepy Works in the short term

Examples: technology, tax incentives A solution outside ourselves Others are taking care of it -- does not build ownership for the problems What happens when the “fix” goes away?

Examples: laws, policies, etc. Let’s get mean!..... … yeh, that always works well

Treats symptoms; does not fundamentally change behavior Not sustainable! So, what ‘F word’ can create a fundamental change in behavior?

“Above all, the history of climate change shows that perceptions of the issues are by no means driven only – or even primarily – by facts, evidence and rational argument. Images, narratives, relationships and values matter at least as much.” Climate Change: The State of the Debate, Center on International Cooperation, 2007

Show a truth that influences people’s feelings Match what you’re saying to what the person values Speak their language Use a trusted communicator Use stories (and images) instead of statistics Concentrate on positive rather than negative outcomes Acknowledge what people are losing Bust the myths Show respect for a person’s previous choices Propose simple steps – ask for a little Show some “social proof” Prompt people to imagine the future Create group ownership and identity – involve everyone (even the skeptics) Make it fun! others??......

Mary Lynn Manns Green Drinks March 2010