Seminar

Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

“Do not let the sun “Do not let the sun go down on your wrath; neither give place to the devil.” Ephesians 4:26,27 “Do “Do not let the sun go down on your wrath; neither give place to the devil.” Ephesians 4:26,27 Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

Problems are like termites. The longer they are left, the more they multiply! Problems are like termites. The longer they are left, the more they multiply! Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

Like a coin or a bill, every story has two sides! Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

My side Your side The right side! Three Sides? Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

“Let each of you look out not only for his own interest, but also for the interests of others” Philippians 2:4 “Let each of you look out not only for his own interest, but also for the interests of others” Philippians 2:4 Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

“Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one.” Colossians 4:6 “Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one.” Colossians 4:6 Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

Speaker1.Problem2.Feelings3.Wants 4.“I” Statements Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

“An effective “I” statement states the problem, tells how I feel about it, and says what I want.” “An effective “I” statement states the problem, tells how I feel about it, and says what I want.” Three Essentials to Successful Communication

Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

“So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath.” James 1:19 “So “So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath.” James 1:19 Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

Effective or active listening hears what is said plus what’s not said. It combines words, tone and body language to interpret feelings. It grasps the total message. Effective or active listening hears what is said plus what’s not said. It combines words, tone and body language to interpret feelings. It grasps the total message. Three Essentials to Successful Communication

Listener Listener 5. Interpreting 6. Empathizing 7. Mirroring 8. “You” Statement Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

Like a coin or a bill, every story has two sides! Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

Together 9.Exchange 10.Discover each other’s real needs. Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

The root of every marital problem is “self first” James 4: 1, 2 The solution to each conflict is “spouse first” Romans 15:1,2 The root of every marital problem is “self first” James 4: 1, 2 The solution to each conflict is “spouse first” Romans 15:1,2 Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

“For even Christ did not please Himself” Romans 15:3 “For even Christ did not please Himself” Romans 15:3 Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

Action Plan 1.List all the options. 2.Decide on the best one. 3. Let it be a win-win solution. Action Plan 1.List all the options. 2.Decide on the best one. 3. Let it be a win-win solution. Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

“Confess your faults one to another…that you may be healed.”James 5:16 “Confess your faults one to another…that you may be healed.”James 5:16 Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

The easy question: “Where was my mate wrong?” The important question: “Where was I wrong?” The easy question: “Where was my mate wrong?” The important question: “Where was I wrong?” Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

When the storms arise, Christ, the Prince of peace, will rise and say, “Peace, be still.” Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

There is another conflict that needs to be resolved. There is another conflict that needs to be resolved. The two parties are my God and I. This separation is caused by sin. I was born separated from my God. Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

“But your iniquities have separated you from your God” Isaiah 59:2 “But your iniquities have separated you from your God” Isaiah 59:2 Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

There are seven steps for reconciliation with God. He has taken six! I only need to take one! Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

At the close of this meeting, I will invite every man and every woman to come to this altar and take step #7!

Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

“In the beginning was the Word, And the Word was with God, And the Word was God. And the Word was made flesh, And dwelt among us.” John 1:1,14 “In the beginning was the Word, And the Word was with God, And the Word was God. And the Word was made flesh, And dwelt among us.” John 1:1,14 Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

This a incompre- hensible mystery! Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

The Mighty God, implanted in the womb of a woman, and be born of a virgin! He is “Immanuel, God with Us!” Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

“ But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. ” Romans 5:8 “ But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. ” Romans 5:8 Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

See His back bleeding from 39 lashes twice! Feel the nails tearing the flesh of His hands and feet! Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

Hear His cry, “My God! Why have You forsaken Me?” Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

“Seeing then that we have a great High Priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession.” Hebrews 4:14 “Seeing then that we have a great High Priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession.” Hebrews 4:14 Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

CHRIST IS MY PRIEST!  I don’t need an earthly priest to intercede with God for me.  I can talk to God myself, through Jesus, my heavenly High Priest.  Christ gives me grace, pardon and peace continually. CHRIST IS MY PRIEST!  I don’t need an earthly priest to intercede with God for me.  I can talk to God myself, through Jesus, my heavenly High Priest.  Christ gives me grace, pardon and peace continually. Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

“For the Lord Himself will descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of an archangel and the trumpet of God.” 1 Thessalonians 4:16 “For “For the Lord Himself will descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of an archangel and the trumpet trumpet of God.” 1 Thessalonians 4:16 Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

When Jesus Comes Christ’s people dead: Resurrected – 1 Thess. 4:16 1 Thess. 4:16 Christ’s people alive: Translated – 1 Thess. 4:17 1 Thess. 4:17 Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

Satan’s people alive: Fall dead – 2 Thess. 1:7-9 2 Thess. 1:7-9 Satan’s people dead: Stay dead – Rev. 20:5 Rev. 20:5 Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

For 1000 Years Satan’s people dead – Rev 20:5 Satan Bound - Rev. 20: 1-3 Christ’s people in heaven – Rev. 20:4 Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

End Of Millennium Christ’s people & City descend – Rev 21:1 Satan’s people resurrected – Rev. 20:5 Christ’s people & City descend – Rev 21:1 Satan’s people resurrected – Rev. 20:5 Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

Earth’s last war – Rev. 20:7-9 Satan, sin & sinners destroyed – Rev. 20: 10, 15 New Jerusalem! – Rev. 21: 1-2 Earth’s last war – Rev. 20:7-9 Satan, sin & sinners destroyed – Rev. 20: 10, 15 New Jerusalem! – Rev. 21: 1-2 Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts

“ God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away. ” Revelation 21:4, KJV “ God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away. ” Revelation 21:4, KJV Seven Steps for Resolving Conflicts