Personal Priesthood Interviews Duties of Quroum President: Duties of Quroum President: “sit in council with” “sit in council with” “teach them what they should do” “teach them what they should do” Have you conducted interviews before? Have you conducted interviews before? What examples of interviewing have you had? What examples of interviewing have you had? What have you learned from those? What have you learned from those?

Personal Priesthood Interviews You will not be asking any worthiness questions such as “are you honest in your dealings?” You will not be asking any worthiness questions such as “are you honest in your dealings?” If someone were to tell you they had difficulties with that, you would encourage them to talk to the Bishop. You could tell them what works for you. If someone were to tell you they had difficulties with that, you would encourage them to talk to the Bishop. You could tell them what works for you.

Personal Priesthood Interviews Here is a framework to use. What questions could you use to assess these areas? (Each area below has an associated slide to follow with appropriate questions): Here is a framework to use. What questions could you use to assess these areas? (Each area below has an associated slide to follow with appropriate questions): Get to know your quorum member. Get to know your quorum member. Priesthood duties, training Priesthood duties, training Social Social Spiritual Spiritual Physical Physical Financial Financial Emotional Emotional Educational Educational

Personal Priesthood Interviews Get to know your quorum member. Get to know your quorum member. Where were you born? Where were you born? Where have you lived? Where have you lived? Who are all your family members? Who are all your family members? What’s it like in your home life? What’s it like in your home life? What’s it like, for example, to have a new father in the home (Boydell) in your home? What’s it like, for example, to have a new father in the home (Boydell) in your home? What are you interested in? What are you interested in? What are you doing to grow in your interests? What are you doing to grow in your interests? Have you had thoughts about a profession? Have you had thoughts about a profession?

Personal Priesthood Interviews Priesthood Duties Priesthood Duties Tell me what you know about the duties of Deacon/Teacher/Priest? Tell me what you know about the duties of Deacon/Teacher/Priest? What do you know about Home Teaching? What do you know about Home Teaching? What do you know about administering the Sacrament? What do you know about administering the Sacrament? As a Teacher do you still do Deacon’s duties? As a Teacher do you still do Deacon’s duties? What experience have you had in quorum work? What experience have you had in quorum work?

Personal Priesthood Interviews Social Social Who are the friends you are with the most? Who are the friends you are with the most? What do you and your friends like to do or talk about? What do you and your friends like to do or talk about? Are you happy with your friendships? Are you happy with your friendships? Have there been times when your friends have wanted to do things you know you shouldn’t do? Have there been times when your friends have wanted to do things you know you shouldn’t do? What are your challenges with friends? What are your challenges with friends? How do you deal with your challenges? How do you deal with your challenges?

Personal Priesthood Interviews Spiritual Spiritual Describe your testimony. Describe your testimony. What things do you know? What things do you know? When have you had moments when you felt good or times when you felt like you wanted to do better? When have you had moments when you felt good or times when you felt like you wanted to do better? When have you had feelings of peace? When have you had feelings of peace? Tell me what it is like to pass/bless the sacrament? Tell me what it is like to pass/bless the sacrament? How are your prayers different now than 5 years ago? How are your prayers different now than 5 years ago? Do you have scripture reading habits? And if no, what goals would you like to have? Do you have scripture reading habits? And if no, what goals would you like to have?

Personal Priesthood Interviews Physical Physical Which activities do you like to participate in? Which activities do you like to participate in? Do you enjoy any sports? Do you enjoy any sports? Do you have any physical challenges? Do you have any physical challenges? What kind of hard work do you participate in regularly? What kind of hard work do you participate in regularly? What kind of service do you do for others? What kind of service do you do for others? What have been some of your success physically? (could be anything from best 1.5 mile run, to fastest swimming lap or completing lifesaving Merit Badge.) What have been some of your success physically? (could be anything from best 1.5 mile run, to fastest swimming lap or completing lifesaving Merit Badge.)

Personal Priesthood Interviews Financial Financial Tell me what you know about how to manage your finances. Tell me what you know about how to manage your finances. Do you have a savings plan? Do you have a savings plan? What are you doing to save for your mission? What are you doing to save for your mission? What are you doing to earn money? What are you doing to earn money? What do you understand about the Law Of Tithing? What do you understand about the Law Of Tithing? What blessings can come from living it (tithing)? What blessings can come from living it (tithing)? What successes have you had in saving for a goal? What successes have you had in saving for a goal?

Personal Priesthood Interviews Emotional Emotional What’s the difference between a good day and a bad day for you? What’s the difference between a good day and a bad day for you? What do you have more of? What do you have more of? Do you have any control over how many good days and bad days you have? Do you have any control over how many good days and bad days you have? What is a great day for you? How can you make more them happen? What is a great day for you? How can you make more them happen? What affect have prayer and scriptures had on you? What affect have prayer and scriptures had on you? What’s it like to be you? What’s it like to be you?

Personal Priesthood Interviews Educational Educational Have you thought about how your schooling today will effect your profession later on and your ability to earn money? Have you thought about how your schooling today will effect your profession later on and your ability to earn money? What successes have you have educationally? What successes have you have educationally? What characteristics do you like/respect in a teacher? What characteristics do you like/respect in a teacher? Who is your favorite teacher and why? Who is your favorite teacher and why? What classes are you most interested? What classes are you most interested? In what areas do your talents seem to lie? In what areas do your talents seem to lie?

Personal Priesthood Interviews Effective Venues and points Effective Venues and points #1 we must maintain confidentiality (if we see big problem we encourage that person to see the Bishop. Or, “May I suggest to the Bishop he have an interview with you?” Confidentiality must be breached if person is in danger of imminent bodily harm or abuse (talk to professional/Bishop hypothetically). #1 we must maintain confidentiality (if we see big problem we encourage that person to see the Bishop. Or, “May I suggest to the Bishop he have an interview with you?” Confidentiality must be breached if person is in danger of imminent bodily harm or abuse (talk to professional/Bishop hypothetically). Standard interview, 1 on 1 in an office setting Standard interview, 1 on 1 in an office setting Standard interview, 1 on 1 with known interviewee Standard interview, 1 on 1 with known interviewee Standard interview, but 2 on 1 (with counselor and interviewee) Standard interview, but 2 on 1 (with counselor and interviewee) Service Project interview, 1 on 1 with different interviewees Service Project interview, 1 on 1 with different interviewees Walking home from school interview Walking home from school interview Fast Offering interview, 1 on 1 or 2 on 1 Fast Offering interview, 1 on 1 or 2 on 1 Campout interview (side by side in sleeping bag) Campout interview (side by side in sleeping bag) Adult and Youth leader interviewing quorum member (2 on 1) Adult and Youth leader interviewing quorum member (2 on 1) “cannot effect change without understanding” “cannot effect change without understanding” Not required to fix a person but understand and listen Not required to fix a person but understand and listen