 When you have someone you that you love its hard to hear and accept the fact that they have cancer. The word cancer itself is a very scary yet unexpected. After this many other unexpected things are going to happen. Weather you like it or not. Here are four tips that may help you. Also things you should be aware about.

 You think you have it hard? Well you don’t. One of the first common things to happen when you hear your loved one has cancer is that you cry or fear of what's gonna happen. Its OKAY to be scared, cry, worry or any other emotions. Just remember that your not going through this alone. Talk to people about it. They may have some helpful advice to give you.

 The doctors and medical staff are doing their very best to cure the patient. So let them do their job. Don’t worry your loved one will be in good hands! Meanwhile when they are not with the doctors you could do your job which is to cheer them up. Take them out to do one of their favorite things! I’m pretty sure they would enjoy it.

 Be aware that your loved one may be going through some physical and emotional stages. Yes by that I mean they are going to have mood swings. They will lose and gain weight. This mostly depends on what medicine they are currently on or have taken recently. So just try your best not to bring it up!

 Yes everything will be different. Adjusting to this is hard but just try your best to find your way around things. There will be ups and downs but at the end everything will be just fine. Trust me.

 Well here are some tips that may come in handy. Well at least for me it did.