A World of Possibilities. A WORLD OF POSSIBILITIES Skills for Creating Happiness and Blessing Others.

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A World of Possibilities

A WORLD OF POSSIBILITIES Skills for Creating Happiness and Blessing Others

A World of Possibilities 1. Your Vision Map 2. Making the Growth Choice 3. The Way of Peace 4. Heart Intelligence 5. The Freedom of Self-Discipline

A World of Possibilities 6. Embracing This Present Moment 7. Accepting and Loving Your Body 8.Healthy Relationships 9.Unleashing Your Creativity 10.Gifts of Gratitude and Blessing

Module # 8 of 10 Healthy Relationships

Group Activity What do you believe are some of the key barriers to developing healthy friendships? How can we overcome these barriers? SMALL GROUP DISCUSSION QUESTION:

With a trustworthy friend, there’s no need to hide any part of who you are. You can be your true self and say what’s on your mind and in your heart. You are free to share happy times as well as moments of sadness and confusion.

Remember, friendship is always an adventure, for each person is a marvelous, unfolding mystery. Even in the closest of relationships, respect the mystery and maintain a degree of reverence. Give those dear to you space to breathe and change and make mistakes.

We can also enjoy a special type of friendship with animals, birds, trees, and nature in its many other forms­—a kinship with all of life. We are interconnected by the web of life so that the health of each small part of the web benefits the well-being of us all.

“Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.” Leo Buscaglia

The Target of Life is a very helpful way to understand our individual and collective well-being.

 When you’re centered in the heart of the Target of Life, you’re at your best and life seems brighter.  You see clearly and therefore make optimal decisions.  You feel peaceful, loving, energetic, and happy.  You’re in a good position to handle just about anything.  However, when things happen that go against our desires and expectations, it’s easy to get pulled off center.

 We experience more fear and negativity.  We say and do things we regret.  The immune system weakens and our productivity declines.  We lose touch with what’s really important to us.  Unhealthy stress increases and our sensitivity toward others decreases.  And the further away from the center we move, the worse it gets!

 That’s why it’s so important to catch early signs of stress, and to use all of our creativity to stay as centered as possible.  When we are centered in the heart of the Target of Life, difficulties still crop up, but we can handle them much more smoothly and effectively.  The more centered we are, the greater our well-being, the wiser our choices, and the more effective we are in everything we do.

Group Activity What suggestions do you have for dealing with difficult people? SMALL GROUP DISCUSSION QUESTION:

Be thoughtful of others and take good care of yourself because the more balanced, healthy, and mature you are as an individual, the more richly you can give to all those around you. Radiate kindness and joy to all!

Particularly in close relationships, do not assume you know a person’s current thoughts, feelings, needs, and dreams; ask, and then listen closely with a fresh mind and an open heart. Radiate kindness and joy to all!

Conflict, which is inevitable, can be a wonderful and healthy opportunity to stretch yourself, to see the wisdom and value of other viewpoints, and to open up to new and potential-filled possibilities. Radiate kindness and joy to all!

Since we all make mistakes and have regrets about the past, the willingness to forgive intelligently and wholeheartedly is a basic part of thriving, happy relationships. Radiate kindness and joy to all!

Like radar, learn to zero in on specific actions and qualities that you like in those around you, and be creative in regularly expressing your genuine appreciation. Radiate kindness and joy to all!

Lightheartedness, playfulness, humor, and the sharing of spontaneous pleasures add sparkle and depth to relationships. Radiate kindness and joy to all!

Group Activity Recall a friendship between a human being and an animal that particularly touched you. What might we learn from such relationships? SMALL GROUP DISCUSSION QUESTION:

WHAT RESEARCH TELLS US The research is clear: Healthy relationships are firmly linked with happiness, success, and physical well-being. Even relationships with pets and plants can nourish our well-being. The quality of relationships is more important than their number or frequency.

To thrive, not only physically, but also emotionally, mentally, and spiritually, we need supportive relationships.

Therapist and author Roberto Assagioli wisely noted: “Without forgiveness, life is governed by an endless cycle of resentment and retaliation.” The Gift of Forgiveness

JUDGE NOT! If we knew the hurts, fears, hopes, and dreams of those around us, we would be far more compassionate. Always try to understand what life is like from the other person’s perspective.

LISTEN WHOLEHEARTEDLY! Temporarily put aside your own concerns and listen with total receptivity to your friend, knowing that he or she is a person of incredible worth and capability.

BE AUTHENTIC! Don’t pretend —to yourself or to others— to be any different from who you really are. Don’t hide any part of yourself. Simply be the beautifully unique and wonderful soul you are.

HAVE FUN! Bring a gentle joy to all your relationships—a warmth that comes from your heart, sparkles in your eyes, and lights your face with pleasantness. Play, laugh, share good times, and enjoy adventures together. Celebrate life’s blessings.

FEEL THE ONENESS! As modern science tells us, we are not separate from one another. We are intimately connected in a single web of life. What we give to others we give to ourselves. Gradually learn to include all souls in your circle of compassion and love.

To be authentic means to be real, genuine, honest, and without pretense. What you do matches what you say, and what you say matches what you think and feel. To help us move toward greater authenticity, workshop leader and counselor Patricia Sun offers this powerful nugget of advice:

“From this moment on, imagine that everyone you meet can instantly read your mind.” Try doing this; it’s a tremendously empowering way to live.

Group Activity How are men and women different when it comes to relationships? SMALL GROUP DISCUSSION QUESTION:

Each relationship, however brief or in-depth, is part of a lifelong curriculum in the science of UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. At first, we learn to return love for love. Then we advance to giving love to dear ones when they are irritable or fearful.

Next, we learn to respond to ill will with good will. Eventually, we stretch ourselves to the max, feeling deeply for all people and learning to return love for hatred.

Think about what you have been learning, and then pick out one small goal you want to accomplish in the next few days. Choose a new possibility that’s important to you. Write your action plan now, briefly stating exactly what you will do and by when. A New Possibility

“Let your best be for your friend.... In the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and the sharing of pleasures. For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed.” Kahlil Gibran

When with another, my spirit says: “You are a beautiful soul, and your feelings and thoughts are important to me. I am listening with my ears and my heart.” POSITIVE SELF-TALK

Remember, the more centered you are on the Target of Life, the more accepting and loving you will be, and the easier it will be for you to give understanding and create healthy relationships.

Together, let’s envision and build a world where all people enjoy optimal well-being. Let’s strive to awaken fresh thinking, new enthusiasm, and abundant love. Let’s create a world of undreamed-of possibilities. It can be done!

A World of Possibilities

Thank You!