BALANCING LIFE’S ISSUES, INC. Dealing with Difficult People.

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BALANCING LIFE’S ISSUES, INC. Dealing with Difficult People

Objectives Define “difficult” Step by Step Guide to Dealing w/ Difficult People Best Practices Things to Remember Staying Sane

Define “Difficult” Mean Tired Stressed Contrary Defensive Talkers Needy Unreliable Criticizers Competitive Spot-lighters Unpredictable People who have to have the last word You must analyze why the person is difficult. Are they….

Step by Step Guide to Dealing Do you want or must you improve the relationship? Start by looking at yourself. Talk to a colleague or positive support person for insight Remember: to move a relationship forward you must be willing to take action.

Best Practices You have the remote! Respond rather than react. You can control of your emotions and words. Use “I” throughout conversations. “I feel this is an issue.” It is not about “winning” it is moving the relationship forward. “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” Eleanor Roosevelt

Use the remote Keep the volume low Tune in to the right channel Focus attention on the program in front of you Relax Rewind and replay

Remember Control your actions and reactions Discretion is a friend Conflicts are part of life Be specific Assume nothing

Staying Sane Ask “What is going on?” Find one thing to agree on. Acknowledge the other persons feelings. Listen, Listen, Listen Confirm understanding with questions. Challenge your own point of view

BALANCING LIFE’S ISSUES, INC. Dealing with Difficult People