哈尔滨学院 外语学院重点课程 主讲人：常 雁 徐晓丹 李人侠 郭明辉 孙 婕 Unit 10 Marriage  The secret of marriage is to work hard and love each other.

哈尔滨学院 外语学院重点课程 主讲人：常 雁 徐晓丹 李人侠 郭明辉 孙 婕 Love  Love is an art of understanding. Deep and mutual understanding is the fertile soil for the evergreen tree of love. As love has many levels of intensity understanding also has its levels of depth. The knowledge of one ’ s appearance, hobby and taste is only the surface. To know one ’ s ability and strong points is the medium level. It is knowledge of the weaknesses of one ’ s beloved that is the deepest level because the weaknesses of person, unlike mistakes that can be overcome, usually accompany him or her throughout life. Only by fully realizing and accepting this fact can a person love truly.

哈尔滨学院 外语学院重点课程 主讲人：常 雁 徐晓丹 李人侠 郭明辉 孙 婕 Love  Youth is always endowed with love; however, love is not necessarily patent to youngsters only. Youth, beauty, sexual appeal and romance will vanish as time passes. But in the mind ’ s eye of a devoted lover, his spouse is, though old and ailing like a candle guttering burning weakly) in wind, still lovely and full of vitality energy). So eternal love is like a never dried-up river which rises from a couple of springs.  Love is the unity of a male and female both physically and spiritually. Although this world can be defined in many ways, true love can not happen, develop and last without sincerity, understanding and trials.

哈尔滨学院 外语学院重点课程 主讲人：常 雁 徐晓丹 李人侠 郭明辉 孙 婕 How to keep love ever green? Withdrawals Deposits speaking disrespectfully, putting people down or acting in rude and discourteous ways (snub, humiliate) Being kind Never saying “ I ’ m sorry." or saying it insincerely. Apologizing Criticizing, complaining and talking negatively about others when they are not around. Being loyal to those not present Never making commitments to anyone or making commitments but rarely following through. Making and keeping promise Being quick ot take offense, holding grudges ill-will, envy) throwing people ’ s past mistakes up to them and nurturing grievance or complaint. Forgiving

哈尔滨学院 外语学院重点课程 主讲人：常 雁 徐晓丹 李人侠 郭明辉 孙 婕 Ten Ways to keep love alive 1.Share values 2.Friendship 3.Intimacy 4. Fighting for fair 5. Tolerance 6. Passion 7. Equality 8. Trust 9. Commitment 10. Understanding

哈尔滨学院 外语学院重点课程 主讲人：常 雁 徐晓丹 李人侠 郭明辉 孙 婕 Part 1  Good wishing to bride and bridegroom

哈尔滨学院 外语学院重点课程 主讲人：常 雁 徐晓丹 李人侠 郭明辉 孙 婕 Part 2  Wedding: bride and bridegroom

哈尔滨学院 外语学院重点课程 主讲人：常 雁 徐晓丹 李人侠 郭明辉 孙 婕 Part 3  From lovers to couples.

哈尔滨学院 外语学院重点课程 主讲人：常 雁 徐晓丹 李人侠 郭明辉 孙 婕 Part 4  Happy family life

哈尔滨学院 外语学院重点课程 主讲人：常 雁 徐晓丹 李人侠 郭明辉 孙 婕 Part 5  Love note from husband

哈尔滨学院 外语学院重点课程 主讲人：常 雁 徐晓丹 李人侠 郭明辉 孙 婕 Wedding customs  Wedding ceremony  The wedding ring----the symbol of eternity

哈尔滨学院 外语学院重点课程 主讲人：常 雁 徐晓丹 李人侠 郭明辉 孙 婕 Honeymoon  It was an ancient custom for a newly married couple to drink a liquid mixture containing honey on each of the first 30 days of the marriage.

哈尔滨学院 外语学院重点课程 主讲人：常 雁 徐晓丹 李人侠 郭明辉 孙 婕 Legal procedures  There may be regulations concerning the ages at which a couple may marry, the procedures for a license to marry, the recording of the marriage, or the type of ceremony.

哈尔滨学院 外语学院重点课程 主讲人：常 雁 徐晓丹 李人侠 郭明辉 孙 婕 Marriage rites  Protestant  Roman Catholic  Jewish  Eastern Orthodox