1) Don’t minimize the problem 2) Magnify the consequences For a prostitute will bring you to poverty, and sleeping with another man's wife may cost you your very life. (Prov 6:26 NLT) 3) Maintain your marriage The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. (1 Cor 7:3 NIV)

The top five needs of most men are: 1. Sexual fulfillment 2. Recreational companionship 3. An attractive spouse 4. Domestic support 5. Admiration

The top five needs of most women are: 1. Affection 2. Conversation 3. Honesty and openness 4. Financial support 5. Family commitment

4)Manage your mind Temptation comes from the lure of our own evil desires. These evil desires lead to evil actions, and evil actions lead to death. (James 1:14-15 NLT) a) Accepting sinful thoughts in my mind b) Emotional non-physical involvement. c) Physical involvement d)Rationalizing the affair

5)Maintain proper relationships But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people. (Eph 5:3 NIV) 6)Minimize the opportunity If you think you are standing strong, be careful, for you, too, may fall into the same sin. (1 Cor 10:12 NLT)

7)Make a commitment to God’s standards Drink water from your own cistern, And fresh water from your own well. (Prov 5:15 NASB)