Practicing… A B S __ __ __ __ __ __ __

Setting Limits…  Limits [invisible boundaries that protect you]  Limits are IMPORTANT in DATING!  Limits on…  The kinds of people you date  The places you go  Your activities  Transportation you take

GUIDELINES for Setting Limits…  PLAN AHEAD Stay in CONTROL of the situation  AVOID RISKY SITUATIONS RECOGNIZE & AVOID situations that may place you at a greater risk of participating in sexual or unwanted activities

Practicing Abstinence…  Responsible teens ABSTAIN [resist] from sexual and unwanted activities  Shows that you RESPECT yourself, your health, and others  Exercise SELF-CONTROL

Showing Affection…  ?....Why do teens think they must engage in sexual or unwanted activities?  Ways to be close to someone and show affection without being sexually active… Give or get a hug Study together Go for a walk and hold hands Do something nice for each other

Reasons to Practice Abs… 1.Respect for SELF & OTHERS  Self-Respect  [the positive feeling you have about yourself when you live up to your beliefs & values]  A relationship should be based on…  Trust, caring & friendship

Reasons to Practice Abs…[con’t] 2.Avoiding Possible Consequences Consequences [outcomes or effects that may occur as a result of a decision or an action]

Reasons to Practice Abs…[con’t] 3.REWARDS of Abstinence 1. Peace of Mind 2. Self-Respect  [control of your own body] 3. Time for Personal Growth  [pursue your interests, talents, and achieve your goals] 4. Healthy Relationships  [meaningful relationships (respect & interests)