PAX HOST FAMILY ORIENTATION To foster global understanding one homestay at a time.

What is Culture? Culture is not always overt We are all essentially ethnocentric We observe, interpret and then act We don’t know when we are offending others Awareness and knowledge increase our choices Understanding one’s own unique set of values, rules, and preferences is a first step

How Culturally Aware are You? Aspects of culture Sense of Self and Space Communication and Language Dress and Appearance Food and Eating Habits Time and Time Consciousness Relationships Values and Norms Beliefs and Attitudes Mental Process and Learning Work/Home Practices and Habits

Fears and Expectations Goals To identify family members’ and possible students’ fears and expectations about the hosting experience. To recognize that many families/students share these feelings To consider if these fears and expectations are realistic and to identify ways of dealing with them. Write down concerns about the host experience as well as any expectations.

Rules PAX Program Rules Host Family Rules Spoken and unspoken Which rules are firm? Which rules are more flexible? Curfew… Telephone… Internet…

Communication Communication channels between student, family, coordinator and PAX National Office Communication is critical to a successful hosting experience. Host families should not treat their student as a guest, but should speak directly, clearly, and frankly from the very beginning. Communication begins by talking directly with the student. If the problem persists, the host family or student should call the Coordinator. As the coordinator, I depend on regular communication.

Problem-Solving Case Studies Goals To underscore the importance of proper communication To remind all that there will be challenges during their experience Explore ways to solve problems

Practical Matters Host family handbook; Pages Any questions???

Wrap-up and Future Plans Enjoy this experience!! Contact me with any concerns, questions, etc. Would we like to get together as a group for a pot luck, etc?