外 语 系 0 3 级 本 科 一 班 李 华 讲课内容 Unit 1 Friendship

What is a friend ? □ A friend is the one who comes in when the whole world has gone out. □ One who understands my silence. □ To have a good friend ， you need to be a good friend. □ A friend in need is a friend indeed. □ Friends are just the people who share your happiness and sorrow. □ Friends are there （ or here ） for two reasons ： to be used ， or to use you. □ No putting you in a difficult position. □ True friendship does not exist. □ Friends are the angels sent by God for you to love. □ Friendship is like dating without the kissing and sex. □ Knowing no matter what ， you’ll always have a special place in their heart,and they’ll have one in yours ； and loving them completely for who they are. □ When you look at your watch at 4 a.m. ， but still know you can call them and wake them up ， and they’ll still want to talk to you ， that’s friendship.

 1.Why do you need friends ？  2.What do you think a good friend should be like ？  3.Does a friend always have to be a person ？ Why ？  4.Do you think a diary can become your friend ？ Why or why not ? Questions

Do you need friends? Why? ※ to help me/ calm me down when I was upsetcalm me down upset ※ to share my worries and secrets in my inner worldshare ※ to share my happiness and sorrows ※ to be concerned about my feelingsbe concerned about I need friends:

2.What do you think a good friend should be like ？  a friend should be loyal ， wise and brave.  A good friend is someone who shares sweet and sour with you.  a good friend should be kind and funny.When I am bored ， he can entertain me.When I am lonely ， he keeps me company.

3.Does a friend always have to be a person ？ Why ？  a friend has not always to be a person.Anything that helps us can be our friend.  A person may sometime hurt you ， while the other things may not.

4.Do you think a diary can become your friend ？ Why or why not ? aa diary can become my best friend.Because my human friends sometimes may bore us ， but my diary never wearies me with its company. WWhenever and wherever I am ， I can share my secrets with it. MMaybe someday a good friend will turn against you ， but a diary will never be.

 adj. 平静的，镇静的 E.g. The high wind passed and the sea was calm again.  vi. 平静，镇静 E.g. The situation calmed down slowly.  vt. 使 … 平静，使 … 镇静 E.g. At last we calmed him down. calm

upset (upset, upset, upsetting)  vt. 使心烦，使不安 E.g. Don’t upset yourself.  adj. 心烦意乱的，心情不舒适的 E.g. She was upset at not being invited.

share  Vt. 分享，分担 share sth. with sb. E.g. She always shares happiness and worries with me.

be concerned about / for 关心，挂念  E.g. ① Every teacher is concerned about his students’ study. ② If you don’t go home on time, your parents will be concerned about your safety.

loyal AAdj: 忠诚的 忠心的 be loyal to E.g.We should be loyal to our country

hurt  Vt. 使受伤 使伤害 E.g. She hurt my feeling. Did he suffer any hurt ?

True friend Some situations

True friends will drive you anywhere… drive you anywhere…

True friends let everyone come along… everyone come along…

True friends don’t laugh when you get new glasses… when you get new glasses…

True friends never fight like cats and dogs… like cats and dogs…

True friends help you up when your down… up when your down…

And true friends never let you do something you’ll regret when you wake up the next morning! you’ll regret when you wake up the next morning!

Are they true friends ?

Good friend honest funny friendly helpful easy-going careful brave patient The qualities of a good friend

Listen to the tape and find out the information to fill in the blank. Listening-II (5m)

Situation 1  Problem:Peter is often  thinking about himself  Solution : I think peter  should care more about his friends. If he continue to be self-concerned and doesn’t consider others’ feelings, he won’t make more friends and keep friendship for long

situation 2  Problem:Ann usually takes things smoothly  Solution : Ann seldom hurts her friends with her benefit considered. She is a good friend, but I think Ann should try to strike a balance between her friend's needs and her own responsibilities ．

Make a list NameJohnAnnstevePeterSarahJoe Age Gender Likes Dislikes

Homework  1.Review the new words and expressions in the text.  2.Use the Internet to find an e-pal.