Preventing Violence and Abuse

I. Abuse Physical or Emotional harm to someone

II. Abusive Behavior Person is: Controlling Obsessive Manipulating Selfish Aggressive Needy Behaviors include: Insult Humiliate Put-downs Coercion Threats

III. Child Abuse Physical abuse, emotional abuse, sexual abuse, and neglect of anyone under 18 years of age.

IV. Neglect A caretaker fails to provide basic needs such as food, clothing, or love.

V. Domestic Violence The use of force to control and maintain power over a spouse

VI. Cycle of Abuse 1. Tension Building Phase: arguments, insults, accusations, threats. 2. Violent Episode Phase: pushing, hitting, choking, weapons. 3. Honeymoon Phase: apologies, reconciliation, promises

VII. Elder Abuse Fraud, physical abuse, emotional abuse, or neglect of a senior citizen.

VIII. Hazing Harassing newcomers into a group in an abusive, humiliating manner.

IX. Effects of Abuse Physical signs Depression Low self-esteem Eating disorders Low energy or fatigue Poor concentration Difficulty making decisions Difficulty sleeping Feelings of worthlessness Guilt Shame Anxiety

X. Protecting yourself from abuse Create a supporting network of friends and family. Avoid disrespectful people. Be assertive. Show disapproval to abusive behaviors.

XI. Help for the abused. Tell someone. Go somewhere safe. Consider counseling.