HIF1O/2O Dating

Explain the difference between love and infatuation Identify ways to handle rejection Learning Goals

Why do we date? To find a partner in life To get our basic needs met Exposure to new interests Part of the socialization process Try out gender roles New challenges

When to start dating? The move to intimate friendships occurs at different times for everyone When you and your family believes it’s right Should not be taken lightly When you signs of maturity When you are able to rationalize and communicate about your feeling

How to start dating? Go out in groups with mixed gender; less pressure. Get to know many people. Get to know their friends Ease into it Go to public places Wait until you are ready

DON’T BE PRESSURED INTO DATING

Love vs Infatuation Infatuation Intense attraction Often one-sided Short lived Often purely physical Can be reckless

Love vs Infatuation Love Grows out of friendship Takes time Give and take Built on trust and respect Commitment

Handling Rejection Talk to a friend of family member Keep positive about yourself Work on boosting self esteem Examine why? Is it you? Do you need to change how you treat people? ** Don’t be negative about other person; it doesn’t help anything Move on; let it make your stronger

Handling Rejection cont. Ice Cream Good Workout Read pg. 69 in the text and write one additional tips for parents on how they can help their child deal with a break up