Attraction, Rules and Regulations
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Purposes of Dating Socialization To develop appropriate social skills To practice getting along with others in different settings Recreation To have fun and enjoy the companionship of others To try new and different activities Mate Selection To see others in many different settings To compare the personality and characteristics of many people
First Date Expectations Do and Don’ts in dating Through the others eye What are your expectations in dating
Group Dating Benefits? Draw Backs? What can you do?
Dating Guidelines What are they? Approval of guardians Discuss rules ahead of time Go over plans Carry cell phone Call if uncomfortable. Know the person you’re dating How do they treat you Respect and responsibility What does that mean to you?
Setting Limits Scale of Physical Attraction Holding hands Kissing French kissing (making out) Touching with clothes on above the belt Touching with clothes on below the belt Touching without clothes above the belt Touching without clothes above and below the belt Sexual intercourse
Intimacy Scale (Love) THE INTIMACY LOVE AND DATING SCALE I: ATTENTION II: INCLUSION III: AFFECTION IV: TRUST V. CARING VI. PHYSICAL PASSION WITH COMMITMENT VII. LOVE IS PARTNERSHIP