Managing In Tough Times “Bits & Tips” Youth: Needs Vs. Wants

Teenagers’ Wants & Needs To help your teenager distinguish between a want and a need, have your child make 2 lists: one for personal needs; the other for personal wants. Prioritize the lists and talk about how their needs and wants are met.

Positive & Negative Messages Youth receive negative and positive messages from family, school, media, and pop culture. Negative messages tell teens that they need to look, act, or own something to be accepted. Remind your teen that material things do not define a person.

Distinguishing between a Want and a Need The next time your child has to have the latest and greatest item, challenge them to make a list of everything they already have that they are thankful for. Consider opening your child’s eyes to the less fortunate by volunteering at a soup kitchen, children’s home, or community mission. Learning to give back at an early age can teach lifelong lessons.

Pay it Forward As your child receives birthday or holiday gifts, challenge him or her to sort through their old toys and games. Have a yard sell, donate to charity, or pass along to a younger sibling or friend. If you donate to charity, take your child with you. Use discussions about needs and wants to teach your child to pay it forward!