Conflict
Three basic conflict styles Avoidance – steering clear of conflict Confrontation – tough, aggressive, in-your-face Problem Solving – working to find solutions
Four-step model for problem solving 1.Find a good time/place to talk (no name calling, no interrupting, no put down, tell the truth) 2.Identify the problem or issue 3.Brainstorm for solutions 4.Choose a solution and agree
De-escalators Stay cool and calm Give the other person some space Listen to the other person Use non-blaming statements Lighten things up Admit your part