Table Manners & Proper Etiquette while Dating Teen Living

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Write down what you KNOW about proper manners and etiquette KNOW-L-D LEARN DO/GOAL KNOW Write down what you KNOW about proper manners and etiquette

K-LEARN-D LEARN DO/GOAL KNOW As we go through the rules of etiquette and manners, write down what you LEARN.

K-L- DO! LEARN DO/GOAL KNOW WRITE DOWN AT LEAST TWO GOALS OF HOW YOU WANT TO IMPROVE YOUR MANNERS/ ETIQUETTE

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You will be judged by your manners Why Manners? Manners are decided by society. History has stated them as adapted from royalty Know that manners differ from one culture to another. If you are living or traveling abroad, you may wish to do some research beforehand. You will be judged by your manners

Table etiquette - courtesy shown by good manners at meals Table manners reflect part of your personality to others Makes eating a pleasant experience for everyone Most rules of etiquette involve common sense and consideration of other people

Common Rules of Etiquette Sit down from the left side of your chair

Common Rules of Etiquette Assist with passing of foods when appropriate; pass to the right

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Common Rules of Etiquette Use flatware from the outside in

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Common Rules of Etiquette NAPKIN Place on lap before starting to eat; cover your mouth and nose if you must cough or sneeze Leave on your chair if leaving the table and returning during a meal Leave to the left of the plate when finished with the meal

Common Rules of Etiquette When eating with a small group wait until everyone is served before eating

Common Rules of Etiquette Follow actions of host/hostess as a guide when dining in someone’s home

Common Rules of Etiquette Avoid talking with food in your mouth; chew with your mouth closed

Common Rules of Etiquette Cut food into bite-size pieces as you eat Cut meat one bite at a time

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Common Rules of Etiquette Sit up straight; avoid leaning on elbows while eating

Common Rules of Etiquette Place spoon on soup plate rather than the bowl/cup when finished eating

Common Rules of Etiquette Place the knife and fork on the plate with the handles parallel to the edge of the table when finished eating

Common Rules of Etiquette Break one piece of bread/roll and butter one piece at a time

Common Rules of Etiquette Place butter on your own plate before buttering your bread/roll

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CELL PHONE ETIQUETTE

Cell Phone Etiquette Turn your phone on silent/vibrate when you go to a restaurant or sit down to eat at someone’s home.

CELL PHONE ETIQUETTE 2) If you are expecting an urgent call during dinner, let your date/guests know up front and explain why it is necessary to answer.

CELL PHONE ETIQUETTE 3) If you do get an urgent call, excuse yourself from the table to take the call (but stay in view). Make the call as quick as possible.

DO NOT HAVE YOUR PHONE OUT AT DINNER…. EVER! CELL PHONE ETIQUETTE 4) Do NOT check your phone at the dinner table if it vibrates. If you MUST check it, do so discreetly under the table. DO NOT HAVE YOUR PHONE OUT AT DINNER…. EVER!

CELL PHONE ETIQUETTE 5) Never take a picture of your date/guests or the food unless they have asked you to do so.

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What do you think about tipping? Is it necessary? Do you ALWAYS tip?

Tipping Etiquette

Tipping Etiquette Good service= a tip of 18% (15% - 20%) of the pre-tax bill Excellent service= 20% If your experience was so poor that you feel the server has earned no tip, you should contact the establishment’s manager and discuss your displeasure with him/her.

TIPPING ETIQUETTE In which situations/establishments do you leave a tip – at McDonald’s or at Olive Garden?

TIPPING ETIQUETTE FULL SERVICE RESTAURANT: Leave a customary tip (15% - 20%) BUFFET STYLE (provide beverage and fresh plate service) : Lesser amount (5% - 10%) FAST FOOD RESTAURANTS: No tip is necessary

When do restaurants automatically include a gratuity on your bill? TIPPING ETIQUETTE When do restaurants automatically include a gratuity on your bill?

TIPPING ETIQUETTE Many restaurants automatically charge 18% of the bill on parties of 8 or more. May charge different percentages on either smaller or larger groups.

TIPPING ETIQUETTE Is it really necessary to leave a tip? Have you heard of sub-minimum wage?

TIPPING ETIQUETTE In Utah (and many other states) servers in restaurants may earn only $2.13 per hour. Tips are an assumed/built-in portion of their earnings.

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