Living Life Full Spectrum

The quality of our life is determined by the quality of questions we ask.

The Concord Conversations

The Experiment

“I have learned this, at least, by my experiment. That if one advances confidently in the direction of their dream, endeavoring to live the life they are imagining, one passes an invisible boundary…

The Experiment …all sorts of things begin to occur that never otherwise would have occurred. One begins to meet with a success unexpected in common hours.

The Experiment New, more Universal, more liberal Laws begin to establish themselves around this person, or the old Laws are rearranged in one’s favor, nevertheless, one begins to live with the license of a higher order of being.”

“I have learned… that if one advances confidently… The Experiment

Advance Confidently

“I have learned… that if one advances confidently in the direction of their dreams… The Experiment

“I have learned… that if one advances confidently in the direction of their dreams, and endeavors to live the life they are imagining… The Experiment

“I have learned… that if one advances confidently in the direction of their dream, endeavoring to live the life they are imagining, one passes an invisible boundary…

The Experiment …all sorts of things begin to occur that never otherwise would have occurred. One begins to meet with a success unexpected in common hours.”

The Experiment New, more Universal, more liberal Laws begin to establish themselves around this person, or the old Laws are rearranged in one’s favor,

The Experiment nevertheless, one begins to live with a license of a higher order of being.”

The problem is never in the _______. The problem is always in the ________ about the problem. problem thinking

River Reed Thinking

Are Your Ready to Take the Leap?

Defining & Designing Your Dream

What would I LOVE?

Pay attention to your _______ and to your _________. longings discontent

Clarity Through Contrast  Don’t Want  Do Want So, what do I want? Losier

What if?  If money and time were not a concern, what would my life look like?  What would I do if I knew I could not fail?

3 Ways to Define Your Dream  Specific  General  Feeling you will have when you have it

Partners in Believing  Recognize the gift and the responsibility with which you hold someone’s dream  You are a mirror to them  Remember who they are—a great soul in an earth suit  There is nothing they could tell you that is beyond their capacity to bring about  Unconditional Positive Regard—Carl Rogers— fill the room with UPR

Partner Exercise  #1-”Your dream is safe with me. Please tell me your dream.” (3 min)  #1-Be fully present and LISTEN. Only Partner #2 is speaking. #1 remains silent & attentive.  #1 reflects back #2’s dream to them (2 min) “This is the dream I hear you having…”  #2 remains silent & listens for what gives her life and what does not feel right, what is missing.  #2 clarifies the dream…And to clarify, the dream I am really having is…” (1 min)

Testing Your Dream

Testing The Dream Does it give me more _____? Does it align___________________? Will it cause me to _______? Do I need ___________________________? Is there some good in this dream ___________? life with my core values grow help from a higher power for others

In what ways does this dream support and facilitate connecting and serving others, creating value and enriching the world? Today, I Begin My New Life by Dave Blanchard

Is it in the Sweet Spot?  Is it BIG enough to excite and ignite you?  Is it SMALL enough that you believe it is possible?  This or something better

Deciding For Your Dream

We cannot get to our dream We must come from it, and In order to come from it We must become it. ~ Mary Manin Morrissey~

Putting On Your Dream

What would I do if I didn’t believe it was impossible?

“Five Sensorize” Your Vision  Use all 5 senses to put on that life  What does it smell like, sound like, feel like, look like, taste like?  Allow yourself to feel this in your whole body—feel the emotions!

Allow yourself to ‘put on’ that life… What does that person do, say, eat, wear? Who do you hang out with? What kind of conversations do you have? How does that person walk out the door in the morning? What does that person watch on television? What does that person read?

Step into that vision, Put on that Person!

If you can dream it, you can be it! Whatever the mind of man can conceive and bring itself to believe, it can achieve.” Napoleon Hill August 2018

If your future self could speak to you, what would she say? What would she want you to know?

NEXT STEPS  START from where you are with what you have.  Ask yourself each day, “What is one thing I CAN do TODAY to take a step in the direction of my dream?  Then take that step.  When you get distracted, ask yourself, “Will this bring me closer to my dream?”

Bill Gates  Timing  Depth of Vision  Immediate Massive Action

+ CHARACTER IS… Following through on a decision long after the excitement and emotion has passed. Cavett Robert  ACT WITHIN 48 HOURS

Living Life Full Spectrum