When We Disagree. Colossians 3:12-14 12 Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering;

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When We Disagree

Colossians 3: Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; 13 bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do.

We Will We are individuals – own thoughts and ideas Work, church, home, marriage – everywhere We must learn how to disagree Without being disagreeable

Welcome It Disagreement is an opportunity to grow You might learn something It might prevent you from making a BIG mistake

Distrust 1 st Instinct First instinct = Defensive Cat in a corner – the claws come out, hiss, show teeth James 1:19 So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath

Control your Temper You can measure a man by what makes him angry. Proverbs 14:17 A quick-tempered man acts foolishly, And a man of wicked intentions is hated. Proverbs 14:29 He who is slow to wrath has great understanding, But he who is impulsive exalts folly.

Listen First Proverbs 15:1 A soft answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger. Build bridges, not barriers Let him finish - “Give him enough rope to hang himself.”

Look for Agreement Jesus did  In letters to 7 churches (Revelation 2 & 3)  Each letter starts with what is good with that church Find something good to say Tell them what is right

Be Honest Apologize for your mistake, misunderstanding, wrong information Colossians 3:12-14  BEAR = Endure, Let Go  FOREBEAR = Ignore REMEMBER – You are no bargain to live with either!!

Promise to Consider Promise to think carefully and consider his ideas, thoughts, viewpoint There might be some merit If you still disagree – you will have clear reasons to discuss (not just emotion)

Promise to Consider Genesis 21: And Sarah saw the son of Hagar the Egyptian, which she had born unto Abraham, mocking. 10 Wherefore she said unto Abraham, Cast out this bondwoman and her son: for the son of this bondwoman shall not be heir with my son, even with Isaac. 11 And the thing was very grievous in Abraham's sight because of his son.

Promise to Consider Genesis 21:12 And God said unto Abraham, Let it not be grievous in thy sight because of the lad, and because of thy bondwoman; in all that Sarah hath said unto thee, hearken unto her voice; for in Isaac shall thy seed be called. God said – Listen to Sarah, Consider her feelings, think about her point of view

Thanks for Interest It takes courage to disagree Thank him for standing for his viewpoint This shows he really cares about the matter

PRAY Postpone any action Pray for wisdom, knowledge, understanding Be open to consider the other view

Colossians 3: Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; 13 bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do.