Goal Setting Review ______ ______ ______ ______ ______

What is Behavior? Is it okay to be different?

True or False ? As a small group, please complete the first page ONLY As a small group, please complete the first page ONLY

What is Bullying? Happens more than once – REPEATED Happens more than once – REPEATED It’s done ON PURPOSE with the intention to hurt someone It’s done ON PURPOSE with the intention to hurt someone Creates an imbalance of social or physical power Creates an imbalance of social or physical power

What is Bullying? Physical – hitting, kicking, pushing Physical – hitting, kicking, pushing Verbal – using insults, name calling, or spreading rumors. Words CAN hurt. Verbal – using insults, name calling, or spreading rumors. Words CAN hurt. Relationship/Emotional – social isolation or exclusion, gossip, mocking, giggling/pointing Relationship/Emotional – social isolation or exclusion, gossip, mocking, giggling/pointing

What does Bullying look like?

What does Bullying sound like?

True or False ? (Answers)

Normal Conflict vs. Bullying CONFLICT 1. Equal power 2. Happens occasionally 3. Occurs naturally 4. Everyone is upset 5. Not seeking power or attention 6. Feel bad for what happened 7. Effort to solve problem BULLYING 1. Imbalance of power 2. Happens repeatedly 3. On purpose 4. Only the target is upset 5. Seeking Power 6. Do not feel bad for what happened 7. No effort to solve problem

Now it’s Your turn to decide… Bullying or Normal Conflict? He said I wasn’t “cool” and wouldn’t let me play basketball at recess… He said I wasn’t “cool” and wouldn’t let me play basketball at recess…

Now it’s Your turn to decide… Bullying or Normal Conflict? He said I wasn’t “cool” and wouldn’t play with me at recess today… He said I wasn’t “cool” and wouldn’t play with me at recess today… NORMAL CONFLICT NORMAL CONFLICT because it only happened once because it only happened once

Now it’s Your turn to decide… Bullying or Normal Conflict? Some girls are ignoring me for no reason every day… Some girls are ignoring me for no reason every day…

Now it’s Your turn to decide… Bullying or Normal Conflict? Some girls are ignoring me for no reason every day… Some girls are ignoring me for no reason every day… BULLYING BULLYING Because the behaviors are repeated Because the behaviors are repeated

Now it’s Your turn to decide… Bullying or Normal Conflict? He pushed me in P.E.… He pushed me in P.E.…

Now it’s Your turn to decide… Bullying or Normal Conflict? He pushed me in P.E… He pushed me in P.E… NORMAL CONFLICT NORMAL CONFLICT However, it could be Bullying IF the However, it could be Bullying IF the behavior is repeated behavior is repeated

Group Activity - is it Normal Conflict or Bullying? Each group will come up with a situation, and the class will decide if it is normal conflict or bullying behavior.

In Summary: Bullying is about power – it is NOT everyday conflict Bullying is about power – it is NOT everyday conflict Bullying is done REPEATED and ON PURPOSE to upset others Bullying is done REPEATED and ON PURPOSE to upset others Individuals or groups can bully Individuals or groups can bully With bullying there are the: With bullying there are the: –Targets, or students who are bullied –Students who bully others –Bystanders –Those who Intervene

Why do you think people use bullying behavior? Why do you think people get bullied?

Let’s Review: Bullying is when mean behavior is done _______________ and _____________. Bullying is when mean behavior is done _______________ and _____________. What is one difference between normal Conflict and Bullying? What is one difference between normal Conflict and Bullying? With Bullying there are ________, ________, __________, and __________. With Bullying there are ________, ________, __________, and __________.

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