Loneliness

Being Lonely  Feeling lonely means NOT feeling like you are a part of a group, large or small.  Feel overlooked altogether and want to feel included  Can get mixed up with rejection- not the same thing!

Feeling alone means:  Being alone differs from being lonely because one CHOOSES to be alone.  Spending time alone by choice can be relaxing, or a time for reflecting and thinking about attitudes, goals, life, etc.  Doesn’t necessarily mean you are being rejected.  It’s good to enjoy your own company sometimes!

Case Examples

Rejection is  Means that others prefer not to be with you. When you try to join, you are shut out.  Some lonely teens never get rejected because they may not even try to join a group.  Deep & long-lasting. Suffered by those who are different from the average in their health, intelligence, appearance, or behavior.

Some reasons for rejection are:  Physical Handicaps- Why?  Super Smart  Learning Disabilities  Ethnic Origins  Religious beliefs  Gender  Geography (where you live)  Family Income  Skill Level  Inappropriate Behaviors  Family Structures

 Have you ever been affected by any of these?  If so, What?  Did you ever reject other because of these? If so, Why?

Questions to ask yourself if you feel lonely often:  Do I belong with the group I want to join?  Do I make the first move to be friendly or pay attention to others?  Do I miss opportunities for friendship?  Do I invest in others?  Do I build resources in myself?