2 pt 3 pt 4 pt 5pt 1 pt 2 pt 3 pt 4 pt 5 pt 1 pt 2pt 3 pt 4pt 5 pt 1pt 2pt 3 pt 4 pt 5 pt 1 pt 2 pt 3 pt 4pt 5 pt 1pt Getting On Course Personal Responsibility Self- Motivation Self- Management Interdepen- dence
Key ingredient of personal responsibility
Choice
Positive beliefs lead to positive behaviors, effective behaviors lead to success, success reinforces positive beliefs
Cycle of Success
Career success is often determined by these types of skills
Soft Skills
Our Inner compass that guides our choices
Core Beliefs
A written record of thoughts and feelings, hopes and dreams
Journal
Way to make a responsible decision by answering six questions
Wise Choice Process
Believe that external forces determine outcomes & experiences
Victim
The internal voice that criticizes us
Inner Critic
When people change beliefs and behaviors to create the best results they can, they are acting as …
Creators
The internal voice that objectively observes events and simply asks: “Am I on-course or off-course?”
Inner Guide
Gives our lives purpose and meaning
Dreams
An activity to which we regularly devote large amounts of time and energy
Life Role
An unbending intention, a single- mindedness of purpose that helps overcome all obstacles
Commitment
An acronym for the qualities of an effective goal
DAPPS
An effective way to strengthen desired personal qualities
Personal Affirmation
Important activities done without the pressure of looming deadlines
Quadrant II actions
Victims spend much of their time in these quadrants
Quadrants III and IV
This self- management tool records everything you want to do as soon as possible
Next Actions List
Made up of three essential ingredients: commitment, focus and persistence
Self- Discipline
The Core Belief that I CAN!
Self- Confidence
These type of people maximize their results by seeking assistance
Interdependent
The key to ensuring balance between giving and receiving
Mutually Supportive Relationships
Accepting 100% responsibility for receiving the same message the speaker sent
Active Listening
The communication style of Creators
Leveling
Victims who use this communication style are dominated by their Inner Defender
Blaming