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©2002 Franklin Covey Co. Journal entry # 1 What are some of the major problems teens face today? See pg. 4 2

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. 3 Habits A habit is something you do without thinking about it.

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. 4 Effectiveness Effectiveness is habitually doing things that help you get great results over and over again.

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. 5 7 Habits Tree Private Victory ® Public Victory ® Renewal

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. 6 7 Habits Tree Private Victory ® Public Victory ® Renewal 5. Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood ® 1. Be Proactive ® 2. Begin with the End in Mind ® 3. Put First Things First ® 4. Think Win-Win ® 6. Synergize ® 7. Sharpen the Saw ®

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. 7 habits of Highly Defective Teens Read the 7 habits of Highly Defective Teens and then make a list of some of the habits that you see in your life that are defective. Basically, what is wrong with your life now. Make an honest assessment. 7

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. Paradigms and Principles- Journal #2 When you look in the mirror what do you see (outside and INSIDE)? Which life center do you think you are? How can you be principle-centered? 8

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. Baby Steps pg. 28 Complete # 4 and #5 baby steps in your journal. 9

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. 10 Personal Bank Account PBA DepositsPBA Withdrawals Keep promises Break personal promises. to yourself. Do small acts Keep to yourself. of kindness. Be gentle with yourself.Beat yourself up. Be honest.Be dishonest. Renew yourself.Wear yourself out. Tap into your talents.Neglect your talents.

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. Baby Steps pg. 45 Complete baby steps # 4, #5, #6, #9 in your journal. 11

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. 12 Proactive vs. Reactive Can-Do PeopleNo-Can-Do People Take initiative to Wait for something to make it happen.happen to them. Think about solutions Think about problems and options.and barriers. Act.Are acted upon.

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. 13 Pause, Think, Do PauseLearn to pause. ThinkThink about how you want to respond. DoDo the most proactive thing.

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. Baby Steps pg Complete baby steps #2, #4, #8, #10 in your journal. 14

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. Journal # 3 What are the 10 most important things, people, values, ideas, etc. in your life? Choose the top 5 and create a collage that represents the most important things in your life. 15

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. Personal Mission Statement Complete the Great Discovery on pg You must complete all 10 entries. Take all the ideas about what is important, where you see your life going, and what your goals and talents are and write a personal mission statement. See examples pg & Transfer your mission statement to a piece of construction paper and decorate as you wish. 16

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. Personal Mission Statement Template I am at my best when …. I will try to prevent times when … (when are you at your worst) I will enjoy school by ….(what do you really love to do at school) I will find enjoyment in my personal life through…. I will find opportunities to use my natural talents and gifts such as …. I can do anything I set my mind to. I can……(If you had unlimited time and resources, and knew you could not fail, what would you choose to do?) My life's journey is about…. (what are you doing, who is it for, why you are doing it, and what the journey’s results are.) I will be a person who…. (what will your family say about you years from now) My most important future contribution to others will be … I will stop procrastinating and start working on: …(things you feel you should really do or change even though they may be hard or impractical) I will strive to incorporate the following attributes into my life:… (think of what you admire in others) I will constantly renew myself by focusing on the four dimensions of my life:… (What are the single most important things you can do in each of these areas that will have the greatest positive impact on your life) Body, Brain, Heart, Soul 17

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. Baby Steps pg. 104 Complete Baby steps # 1, #5, #8 in your journal. 18

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. Journal # 4 What Quadrant do you spend most of your time in? See pg. 107 What are some of the different roles you play in your life? Based on your list of roles, what are some of your Big Rocks for the next week and what are some of your Small Rocks for the next week? See pg

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. 20 Steps to Planning 1Identify your big rocks. 2Block out time for your big-rock activities. 3Schedule everything else. 20

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©2002 Franklin Covey Co. Baby Steps pg. 128 Complete #2, #5, #6, #8 in your journal 22

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. 23 Relationship Bank Account RBA DepositsRBA Withdrawals Keep promises.Break promises. Do small acts Keep to yourself. of kindness. Be loyal.Gossip and break confidences. Listen.Don’t listen. Say you’re sorry.Be arrogant. Set clear expectations.Set false expectations.

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. Baby Steps pg. 144 Read pgs “Relationship Bank Account” Complete Baby Steps #4, #5, #10 in your journal 24

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. 25 Four Paradigms 1 Win-Lose 2 Lose-Win 3 Lose-Lose 4 Win-Win

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. Baby Steps pg. 162 Complete # 1, #7, #8 in your journal 26

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. Journal # 5 Read the poem on pg Write about a time when you have been in one of these situations. How did it make you feel? How could it have been better? 27

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. 28 Genuine Listening 40% TONE/ FEELING 53% BODY LANGUAGE 7% WORDS

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. 29 Steps to Genuine Listening 1Listen with your eyes, heart, and ears. 2Stand in their shoes. 3Practice mirroring. 29

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. 30 Mimicking vs. Mirroring Mimicking Is:Mirroring Is: Repeating words.Repeating meaning. Using the same words.Using your own words. Cold and indifferent.Warm and caring.

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. Baby Steps pg. 180 Complete #4 & #8 in your journal 31

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. Journal # 6 In your group come up with Five things your group has in common- your similarities- and Five areas in which you are different. Complete the Traits test on pg Afterwards, list the qualities, attributes, and talents that you have that make you unique and helpful. Read pg What Roadblocks prevent you from celebrating differences? 32

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. 33 Getting to Synergy Action Plan Define the Problem or Opportunity Their Way (Seek first to understand the ideas of others.) Brainstorm (Create new opinions and ideas.) My Way (Seek to be understood by sharing your ideas.) High Way (Find the best solution.)

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. Baby Steps pg. 202 Read pg What Roadblocks prevent you from celebrating differences? Complete #3, #5, #7 in your journal 34

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. 35 Heart Four Dimensions Body Brain Soul

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. Journal # 7 List 3 ways that you will renew yourself in each category: Body, Brain, Heart, Soul. 36

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. 7 habits Essay Test Summarize the 7 habits. Use the introduction chapter and the first couple of pages for each habit chapter. Describe what important aspects of the 7 habits have impacted you. What have you learned? What will you apply from the 7 habits or what will you change about your life now that you have completed the workshop? 37

©2002 Franklin Covey Co. Essay Outline Introduction– Grab readers’ attention –Summarize 7 habits –Thesis: What is your opinion of 7 habits Body– First paragraph– habits 1 and 2, describe with supporting details– personal reflection Second body paragraph– habits 3 and 4, describe with supporting details– personal reflection Third body paragraph– habits 5, 6, 7– describe with supporting details– personal reflection Conclusion- Restate your opinion of habits and how will you continue to use 7 habits. 38