1. Do unto others as you would have them do to you.

3. Behavior that is intentional, hurtful and repeated by one or more persons. Bullied students are teased, harassed, and assaulted verbally or physically.

5. Verbal Name calling, teasing, threats and insulting Physical Hitting, pushing, stealing, hiding or ruining someone’s things and kicking

6. Gossiping Spreading rumors and lies about someone. Making someone feel left out or rejected.

7. Jennifer recently broke up with her boyfriend Andrew. Andrew is now dating Melissa. Jennifer convinces all of her friends not to speak or hang out with Melissa anymore. Is this bullying? What kind?

8. When John walks in the hallway to his class, Chris repeatedly knocks his books out of his hand everyday. Is this bullying? What kind?

10. Cyber bullying

11. Being cruel to others by sending or posting harmful material using technological means.

12. Email Social Networks Facebook, Twitter Cell phone Gaming sites

13. “Flaming’: Online fights using electronic messages with angry and vulgar language “Harassment”: Repeatedly sending offensive, rude, and insulting messages “Cyber stalking”: Repeatedly sending messages that include threats of harm or are highly intimidating. Engaging in other on- line activities that make a person afraid for his or her own safety “Denigration”: ‘Dissing’ someone online. Sending or posting cruel gossip or rumors about a person to damage his or her reputation or friendships

14. “Impersonation”: Pretending to be someone else and sending or posting material online that makes that person look bad, gets that person in trouble or danger, or damages that person’s reputation or friendships “Outing and Trickery”: Sharing someone’s secret or embarrassing information online. Tricking someone into revealing secrets or embarrassing information which is then shared online “Exclusion”: Intentionally excluding someone from an on- line group, like a ‘buddy list’

15. Katie sent a message to Jessica pretending to be her friend and asking lots of questions. Jessica responded, sharing really personal information. Katie forwarded the message to lots of other people with her own comment, “Jessica is a loser.”

16. Girl 2- haha and she wonders why people dont like her? if she wasnt witchy she might actually have a chance Girl 1- haha its not good things that they think about her?! right Girl 1! :P Girl 2- haha srry to interrupt but Victim i totally agree with Girl 1 and Girl 3...noone likes you at our school... Girl 1- haha she would. and its all because shes a witch to all of us and think shes being cool and all that crap. but she doesnt get the point that if you're a witch to people.... NO ONE likes you... omg same Girl 1... i HATE witches! and ppl who dont know how to grow up... Girl 2- yep and people that call other people aliens and ugly. and think they are better then other people... oh oops sorry victim i didnt mean to explain you! Girl 1- nice girl 1! im agreeing wit you still.... Girl 2- haha yeah who doesnt agree? Girl 1- i never see ur face. you dont go to school? how am i supposed to tell you....? and okay then. so if u think ur a witch then stop? Girl 2- yea exactly! Girl 1- yea i never talk to you anyways but i'll let Girl 1 do the talking cuz im sure she will see you b4 me. bye witch! have a nice life...

17. Someone who see bullying happening You are a bystander, What will you do? Defend the person who is getting bullied Try to calm the bully down Go get an adult Can you be a bystander for cyber bullying? What can you do? When you see something and don’t do anything about it, you are part of the problem not the solution

18. Myth: Bullies have low self esteem which is why they pick on other people Fact: Some studies have shown that many bullied actually have high self esteem. But they want to feel even more powerful and in control Myth: Only Boys are bullies Fact: Girls bully too. Myth: Getting bullied is normal for growing up? Fact: That is just and excuse for bad behavior, plus it helps create a code of silence about bullying.

19. Myth: Best way to handle a bully back is to get even or fight back Fact: Sometimes bullying is a life or death threat situation. If you try to get even with a bully things will only get worse. Bullies who feel cornered are more likely to come after you again. Myth: If you ignore bullies they will go away Fact: Some bullies may get more and more angry when you ignore them. Talk to someone about it.

20. Treat everyone with respect and kindness - Refuse to bully others and refuse to let others be bullied. Encourage other bystanders to help stop the bullying incident by being assertive. Make friends with someone who continually gets picked on. Report it or send someone to a trusted adult. You are key to stopping bullying.

21. Refuse to watch, laugh, or join in when someone is Bullied. Say, “That’s not funny!” “How would you like it if someone did that to you?” “That’s not showing good character.” “Please stop, I don’t like that.”

23. Talk to a trusted adult Do not believe anything the bully tells you Stick up for yourself respectfully

24. Does it make you feel better to hurt other people or take their things? Are you bigger and stronger than other people your age? Do you sometimes use your size and strength to get your way? Have you been bullied by someone in the past and feel like you have to make up for doing the same thing to others? Do you avoid thinking about how other people might feel if you say or do hurtful things to them?