1. LISTENing

2. Look for the facts  Clearly define the situation, internally and externally  Identify details that might influence how the situation could be resolved

3. Imagine Possibilities  Brainstorm all options  Consider consequences  Name advantages & disadvantages of each option  Include moral and value concerns

4. Seek insight beyond your own  Family, friends, wise people you trust  What does Jesus & the Church teach?

5. Turn inward  Examine your own feelings & insights from your experiences, motives & values  What might God be calling forth in your?  What does your conscience tell you?

6. Expect God’s help  Believe God is present in your life and in seeking the truth  Turn to God in prayer

7. Name your decision  Verbalize or write it  Sometimes you need more time to gather more information – identify the reason for the delay